Hi guys, kind of a long story but there we go:
I'm a 17 year old guy and I have some girl problems.
I had my first kiss about 2 years ago, when I was 15. Since then I have only kissed one other girl, when I was extremely drunk, so I don't remember it and the girl later told me I sucked at kissing (whether this was because of the drunkness I don't know).
Now all of my friends have lost their virginity, most at 15 or 16, and most of my friends had their first kisses when they were like 13 or something. So I seem to be the only one staying behind.
Lately I've just been getting high and doing shrooms (legal where I live), to get away from myself and the world. I've kinda given up on girls. But the way I see it, this is like a vicious circle. I'm still a virgin and have almost zero experience, and because of that girls will find me even less attractive, because of which I won't get new experience, etc. I really want to break out of this circle and find love so I can be happy without being high.
Finally some things about myself: I'm a little shy (with girls), but at the same time very social and friendly. I never have trouble making friends and have a few really good ones at school, and I have no trouble talking to girls and making friends with them either.
I'm not ugly or fat. I'm tall and a little skinny. I'm not muscular either, but I'm quite strong and healthy. I've played guitar since I was 7, so I'm pretty good at it. I'm also pretty smart and have a good sense of humor.
Some bad things about me are: I'm very lazy, very absent-minded at times. I sometimes get depressed quickly (but I try to seem happy when I'm with other people).
So I would say that I'm not a terribly unattractive guy, right? Long story short, my question is what can I do to actually seduce a girl, and eventually get a girlfriend.
Peace.
I'm a 17 year old guy and I have some girl problems.
I had my first kiss about 2 years ago, when I was 15. Since then I have only kissed one other girl, when I was extremely drunk, so I don't remember it and the girl later told me I sucked at kissing (whether this was because of the drunkness I don't know).
Now all of my friends have lost their virginity, most at 15 or 16, and most of my friends had their first kisses when they were like 13 or something. So I seem to be the only one staying behind.
Lately I've just been getting high and doing shrooms (legal where I live), to get away from myself and the world. I've kinda given up on girls. But the way I see it, this is like a vicious circle. I'm still a virgin and have almost zero experience, and because of that girls will find me even less attractive, because of which I won't get new experience, etc. I really want to break out of this circle and find love so I can be happy without being high.
Finally some things about myself: I'm a little shy (with girls), but at the same time very social and friendly. I never have trouble making friends and have a few really good ones at school, and I have no trouble talking to girls and making friends with them either.
I'm not ugly or fat. I'm tall and a little skinny. I'm not muscular either, but I'm quite strong and healthy. I've played guitar since I was 7, so I'm pretty good at it. I'm also pretty smart and have a good sense of humor.
Some bad things about me are: I'm very lazy, very absent-minded at times. I sometimes get depressed quickly (but I try to seem happy when I'm with other people).
So I would say that I'm not a terribly unattractive guy, right? Long story short, my question is what can I do to actually seduce a girl, and eventually get a girlfriend.
Peace.