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I was on msn messenger just before, and as usual my friend hardly ever talks to me any more since he got a girlfriend. When we have met up once or twice at my place, he goes on about his problems.

There's another person who seems to have stopped talking to me but i'm over that anyway. She's older than me so I feel sorry for her if i'm honest. I'm tempted to point out how rude it is, but i'd rather not embarass myself.

Since I have hardly anyone on there, i've deleted msn messenger. Socialising on the internet only leads to hurt and i'm slowly weaning myself off the computer. I'm really going to try hard and make some kind of life for myself this time. I've had some university education, i'm friendly, i'm good looking (i guess), i care about people.. i should be able to make it? Being a kind person has it's downfalls in that i'm very sensitive, but i must try now.. i'm tired of feeling trodden on.

I know I asked to have my account deleted but i just wanted to get that out! Good luck guys.
 
Troubled--
I'm sorry that your friend was a disappointment. Some folks are very flighty and seem to jump from person to person. It's great to hear that you're working towards getting out into the world and furthering your goals. You sound like you have a lot going for you! But I think you should hang out here, when you have time for the computer. A lot of the folks here are very sensitive too. Folks here could offer a lot of support while you make your moves out in the world. I've made some friends in here that I am pretty certain, will last a lifetime. :)
 
Best of luck to you, I think wiping the slate clean is a good idea for you if you are absolutely sure that you do not want these people in your life anymore. I don't know your friends, but if someone in your life is causing you nothing but stress, what are they there for?

I'm just guessing you havn't got the wrong end of the stick, like your friends weren't busy, or away from keyboard or whatever - but hopefully you'll be more fortunate on the friends you make on this new leaf.

I do recommend you confront your friends and tell them exactly how you feel about the situation before hand though, after all if you don't get the response you'd hoped for it doesn't really matter if you're starting over anyway.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Just my two cents.
 
I hope you find what youre looking for.

I wish you gave this place a chance, though. There is no such thing as a noob here. Many people would want to talk to you. I'm going to PM you my email in case you want to talk. Socializing on the internet does not always lead to dissapointment.
 
Well, usually they help in sandwiches, and act as a lubricant to let you eat the meat and cheese better without it all sticking to the top of your mouth. Personally, I like the Vlassic brand line, as they seem to be the highest quality available in stores. Most people find that a sweetly sour taste goes well in a sandwich, so they don't mind having friends who are...

...oh, wait...

fickle!... you said "fickle."

My bad.
 

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