I sometimes just want to give up, on trying to find friends, all I see is back end of people, they move or I am forced to move away. I wish I had never left my old small town, while things were not perfect there, people talked to me, and went I went to groups I was not ostracized, and cut off. It is like I do not even exsist here. The people treat me so terribly, I am disabled and poor, and while last town was working class the town here are snobs. Living here has really affected my self esteem badly, I do not know what to do, I tried everything, working around my health, going to clubs meetings, groups of interests, etc. Nothing worked. I am sick but I am not dead. I talk for hours on phone with long distance friends, but have spent 4 years alone here, I can go literally months without seeing one friend or family member. I am married but he has his own interests and we almost ended up divorced and he does not spend any time with me anymore. I almost divorced him to go back to my old town, but with lack of money and health, have been afraid to. We live more like roommates now, due to really bad finances. He doesnt need people the same way, and never understood why I missed old folks, but then my last small town, is almost a ghost town and scared of the economy too. I am tired of spending life alone, or just talking to voices on the phone. Is it normal to have your social life via the internet? I do not think so, half of my friends have never even seen me in the real world. I am middle aged too, its like I am going to grow old and because I didnt have children and family scattered to ever town, and lost my old small town I lived in for ten years, now I have no one. I am not an important integral part of anyone's life. Feel like I am invisible.