Ninjacat
Member
Hi, just found this site, I always traul the net looking for sites where there may be other people like me.
I'm a mature lady with a grown family, and it saddens me to read just how many young people there are out there who feel terribly lonely too, it seems so sad.
I'm in a bad relationship but can't get out for financial reasons, my children have fled the nest and I hardly see them anymore, I grew up alone, raised my family alone after a disasterous marriage ended in divorce, it seems all I've done all my life has been alone.
I've tried the usual stuff, join groups, learn something new etc. etc., but it really doesnt work, most people go to these things with a partner or a friend and no one wants to talk afterwards, sometimes I've found people positively hostile.
The early hours are the worst - the feeling of loneliness is overwhelming (thank goodness for the computer) I tell myself it will pass, and it does after a while, but I would like someone to talk to, a 'virtual' hand-holder as it were, I've come a long way through life, but loneliness still hurts.
I keep trying new things, I've taught myself French, I've qualified as a Graphologist, I'm a Reiki Healer, have built a couple of websites and lots lots more, but no one ever says 'well done'.
Anyway, I'm off to have a look around the site now
thanks for listening.
I'm a mature lady with a grown family, and it saddens me to read just how many young people there are out there who feel terribly lonely too, it seems so sad.
I'm in a bad relationship but can't get out for financial reasons, my children have fled the nest and I hardly see them anymore, I grew up alone, raised my family alone after a disasterous marriage ended in divorce, it seems all I've done all my life has been alone.
I've tried the usual stuff, join groups, learn something new etc. etc., but it really doesnt work, most people go to these things with a partner or a friend and no one wants to talk afterwards, sometimes I've found people positively hostile.
The early hours are the worst - the feeling of loneliness is overwhelming (thank goodness for the computer) I tell myself it will pass, and it does after a while, but I would like someone to talk to, a 'virtual' hand-holder as it were, I've come a long way through life, but loneliness still hurts.
I keep trying new things, I've taught myself French, I've qualified as a Graphologist, I'm a Reiki Healer, have built a couple of websites and lots lots more, but no one ever says 'well done'.
Anyway, I'm off to have a look around the site now
thanks for listening.