vanillalatte
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I'm a high school student, and I'm not really hated or made fun of, but I don't have any close friends. I know a lot of people but none of them really want to hang out with me on the weekends. They're all happy to talk to me during school, but I never get invited to parties or movies or anything outside of club events. I try to talk to a lot of people, and I'm on a debate team and in a couple clubs, but I never really found anybody who I have had a real connection with except a senior who graduated last year and is at collage far away. I had close friends in middle school, but one ditched me for friends from sports, and another is a hardcore anime/game person but I grew up and got sick of those things, so we don't have much to talk about anymore. I don't really fit in with the anime people/ her friends anymore but I don't fit in with other people I know/ people in my classes either. I get really lonely on weekends when I have nothing to do, but I don't know how to get people to want to do stuff with me. I tried asking my friend from chem if she wanted to go hang out and it didn't work, and I'm scared that other people will reject me too. How do I get them to invite me to do stuff? Being alone all the time really sucks and it makes me so depressed I don't enjoy anything. The only thing that makes me happy is getting messages from the friend who is in collage, but that doesn't happen very often and I'm too afraid that I'll bug her to im her more often. She's at Harvard so she's very busy all the time. I tried posting this on yahoo answers but it didn't work so maybe someone here has some suggestions.