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All the single people..all the single people.
#1
Hey,

I know this is not a dating site but I met my husband here. And it is kind of upsetting reading thread after thread of people complaining..

I can't get a girl..
Or my ex was a jack to me..

So I'm starting this thread. Not sure if anyone did a thread like this before.

If you are single and interested in dating another lonely person. Post in this thread.

In your post say something about yourself. Say where you live, what you like etc.. Say if you are looking for a male or a female and tell them how to contact you.. ie via email or PM or phone or whatever suits you.


And guys dont be shy to talk to the girls who post.

I hope all singles who are intrested in meeting someone who is lonely and who understands loneliness will post.


Also just wanted to say.. long distance does work. I know so many couples who met online and are very happy today. When my husband and I met I was living in Jamaica (Caribbean) and he was living in Holland (Europe).. and we met right here at alonelylife.com

And our relationship is amazing.. It can work.. and you can meet someone.

I hope you all post, and I hope you all meet.
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#2
Very good idea, but this forum seems quite dead.
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#3
(01-28-2011, 10:55 AM)MDxUK Wrote: Very good idea, but this forum seems quite dead.

We're lonely for a reason Smile

Consider counseling; join a support group. You're not alone.


Addressing Negative Thoughts Most Effective in Fighting Loneliness
"Effective interventions are not so much about providing others with whom people can interact, providing social support, or teaching social skills as they are about changing how people who feel lonely perceive, think about, and act toward other people."
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#4
My thoughts exactly- not the most fruitful grounds for a dating scene, m'afraid. Smile
" Honesty is the rarest wealth anyone can possess, and yet all the honesty in the world ain't lawful tender for a loaf of bread."
Josh Billings

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#5
This forum is not dead... people just dont post... but they do read....


please prove me wrong.. post people!!!
it cant be that everyone on here is in a relationship.
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#6
(01-29-2011, 02:43 AM)jales Wrote: This forum is not dead... people just dont post... but they do read....


please prove me wrong.. post people!!!
it cant be that everyone on here is in a relationship.

Big Grin

We're not. We're just lame.

Okay. Jales is trying to do something to help us, so I'm going to be supportive of her efforts.

I'm a 41 year old female. Divorced. Although I'm open to it, I don't need to get married again; but I do want something life-long.

I like TV, dining out, and outdoor stuff except anything that might land me in a water body north of the Mason Dixon Line.

I live in Southern New England.

PM is fine.

Oh, and I still use semicolons.

Consider counseling; join a support group. You're not alone.


Addressing Negative Thoughts Most Effective in Fighting Loneliness
"Effective interventions are not so much about providing others with whom people can interact, providing social support, or teaching social skills as they are about changing how people who feel lonely perceive, think about, and act toward other people."
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#7
I forgot to mention some important facts. I'm 5', 96 pounds. I'm of mixed lineage and have long, dark, curly hair.

Consider counseling; join a support group. You're not alone.


Addressing Negative Thoughts Most Effective in Fighting Loneliness
"Effective interventions are not so much about providing others with whom people can interact, providing social support, or teaching social skills as they are about changing how people who feel lonely perceive, think about, and act toward other people."
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#8
(01-29-2011, 02:43 AM)jales Wrote: it cant be that everyone on here is in a relationship.

It's not that. You can't exactly force people, some who have severe social anxiety, to even want to be in a relationship, much less post for one.
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#9
Sometimes relationships can make you feel far more lonely than you ever did on your own. Especially if you already find it difficult to connect to people. I have twenty years worth of various length relationships behind me, and every single one of them made me feel lonely and miserable! Think I'll stick to being free and single Smile
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#10
My situation makes it nearly impossible for me to get into a relationship. A girl would pretty much have to decide she wants to drop her life entirely to follow me around all over the country to a different location every 3-4 years if she wanted something serious and long term.

Not exactly the most appealing scenario! Thus while I approve of this thread, sadly it isn't one I see myself participating in.
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