Fun things to do with your girl\boyfriend

Hey guys

So for those that have followed my topic: Yes, I'm still in the same relationship Everything is going great!

But as you would have guessed from reading the topic title, I'm looking for some fun things to do as a "day-out" with my girlfriend.

So my question basicly is: what would be your perfect "day-out", or what was the best "day-out" you've ever had with your partner.

I'm really curious. Me and my GF where talking about what to do this weekend, but we just could not come up with anything. So now we are just going to go out to dinner But she keeps telling me she wants to actually do things during the day, go out and have fun.

We are both kinda social phobics, so no bar's or clubs for us. We are more of the museum\cinema type.

But what else is out there besides those 2? What would you enjoy doing together?

Let's see, some things I've done together with my ex's

Went out clubbing/dancing/out in a bar for a drink/karaoke (but these are things you mentioned not to mention)

- Traveled around, visited cities
- Spent time in the Park, had a picnic
- Worked out together, I went to these sort of aerobics classes, and she came to my Kung Fu class
- Movies/theatre/opera/ballet
- Went to a figure skating contest once in Paris, spend a weekend there
- Went to a movie festival once
- Went to swim quite alot of times
- Downhill/cross country skiing
- Alot of shop browsing
- Went to a theme park together and to a nature reserve
- Bungee jumping
- A day at the seaside, with some swimming and a walk on the beach (that's always nice)


I'll do some thinking and list some more later. To be honest, I'm kind of curious what sort of things other people will list, could always use some good ideas myself

I've been meaning to go for a Couple's Massage. If you save a little money for it ahead of time, they're fairly reasonable for a now-and-then thing.

My last thing we went and did was just stay at a nearby hotel for a couple of nights. We took a walk down on the beach along the lake, even though it was blustery and cold, it was nice and peaceful. We circled up through downtown.

Wine tasting, maybe? That's sort of out of the ordinary and you get to learn some interesting things from what I understand. I'm quite vocal about the fact that I don't 'drink', but even I enjoy a glass of wine now and then...whole different culture behind it (and a glass is actually very heart healthy).

Mini golf was fun, also try laser tag. Adults need to be kids every now and then Also see if you have a place nearby where you can do glass blowing. There's a place here we want to check out where they show you how to blow glass.

Along the lines of couple's massage, look in to getting away for a day or two to a nearby hotspring. Understand that 'nearby' might mean a days drive, but it's worth it and she'll think you're amazing.


Besides that, do you enjoy camping, hiking or backpacking? You might check those kinds of things out. It's really refreshing, especially if you live in a more metropolitan area. See what sorts of things she might be interested in learning with you or things she's dreamed of doing. Rhonda's always wanted to learn to SCUBA dive, so I agreed to check it out with her if she gets the details. We've also decided to go check out the cave system near Mt. Saint Helens...she's been there before, but wants to go deeper.

Just an idea, go karting (let her win) quad biking, you know man stuff, from what I've noticed woman somtimes like to get involved with 'man' stuff cause if they win it makes them feel like they wear the trousers and good about them self cause they did better at 'man' stuff. Just a thought.

1. Visit a bookstore.
2. Watch a shitty movie together (and end up having sex because it's boring or too stupid to watch)
3. Have sex.
4. Go look at movies together.
5. Find a restaurant neither of you have been to before and eat lunch or dinner there.
6. Walk in the park.
7. Concerts, local drama club plays, etc. If there's a college or university nearby you could visit their site and find some good events. Universities usually always have some event going on that the public is welcome to attend.
8. Football/basketball game. (or just sports in general)
9. Coffee shop/cafe.
10. Clothes shopping... if you don't mind being bored off your ass for three or four hours. But she'll enjoy it.
11. Play/buy video games together.
12. Sex.
13. Board games. And no I'm not joking.
14. Go to the mall, buy a bag of candy from the candy store, and then sit on a couch or bench and eat the candy whilst people-watching.
15. Play card games.
16. Clean the house together.
17. Draw things with chalk on the local basketball court or nearby sidewalk.
18. Sex.
19. Surf the internet together.
20. Surf porn together, and end up having sex.
21. Attend an art class or dance class together.
22. Learn martial arts and beat each other up. Chicks dig having power like that.
23. Pillow fight...? ...ending up with sex...?

THE POINT IS...

You can do almost ANYTHING together, and as long as you're sharing the moment, it will be awesome and it may end up in sex. SO GET YOUR BUTTS OUT THERE AND START DOING honeysuckle TOGETHER!!

Paintball, dance class, walks are always nice too. Glad to hear u are doing great with ur gf! I read ur previous posts.

ThePsychologist said:

Hey guys

So for those that have followed my topic: Yes, I'm still in the same relationship Everything is going great!

But as you would have guessed from reading the topic title, I'm looking for some fun things to do as a "day-out" with my girlfriend.

So my question basicly is: what would be your perfect "day-out", or what was the best "day-out" you've ever had with your partner.

I'm really curious. Me and my GF where talking about what to do this weekend, but we just could not come up with anything. So now we are just going to go out to dinner But she keeps telling me she wants to actually do things during the day, go out and have fun.

We are both kinda social phobics, so no bar's or clubs for us. We are more of the museum\cinema type.

But what else is out there besides those 2? What would you enjoy doing together?

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How about walking in the countryside or visiting new places with a bit of history attached to them. I personally love doing that and enjoy it on my own or with a friend. You can be as social or unsocial as you like that way.

The most fun and interesting relationship to me are the partners in crime, like Mickey and Mallory in Natural Born Killers.

All the rest is... bland

Peter Lorre said:

Let's see, some things I've done together with my ex's

Went out clubbing/dancing/out in a bar for a drink/karaoke (but these are things you mentioned not to mention)

- Traveled around, visited cities
- Spent time in the Park, had a picnic
- Worked out together, I went to these sort of aerobics classes, and she came to my Kung Fu class
- Movies/theatre/opera/ballet
- Went to a figure skating contest once in Paris, spend a weekend there
- Went to a movie festival once
- Went to swim quite alot of times
- Downhill/cross country skiing
- Alot of shop browsing
- Went to a theme park together and to a nature reserve
- Bungee jumping
- A day at the seaside, with some swimming and a walk on the beach (that's always nice)


I'll do some thinking and list some more later. To be honest, I'm kind of curious what sort of things other people will list, could always use some good ideas myself

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Ohh... it's great to know about the time spent with your girlfriends, I think that you have so much much experience in it. All the best for the next....

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We've liked zoos, parks, and getaways in general. Never hurts to see if either of you have a cause and some organization dedication to it, if only to visit and see what they have to say.

**** you Peter for being so desirable to women. :club:

Watch a movie.

Need a girlfirend before I can answer that

I agree with sex. Never enough..well for me anyways.

Things I'd particularly like to do (apologies for partially rehashing previous lists, seems my ideas are popular! ):

- Snuggle on the sofa and watch a movie together.
- Take a walk along a sea wall and look out over the water.
- See a band live together.
- Lunch at a cafe, then a walk around the park.
- Visit a foreign city together (rather more serious relationship-wise!)
- Go shopping together.
- Share a picnic.
- Do strength/cardio exercise together.
- Shop for food ingredients, then cook meals for each other.
- Play videogames together.
- Play around with magic tricks.

Picnic?

SEX.

Just in case my earlier post on here didn't explain it well enough.

This may not work in a small town, but for us city slickers :

There are photo scavenger hunts you can find online for major cities.

It will be a list of places and things to do in a picture and you have to get as many pictures as you can get in a certain amount of time. This was a team building exercise at work and was a lot of fun!

It will be like - take a picture flexing in front of a statue of some athlete or
Get a picture of you flapping your arms like wings at a bird sanctuary or something

In a big downtown area it's easy to do because everything is 5 min walking distance. It gives you a chance to explore the city and you're guaranteed to find some interesting cool stuff to do all spur of the moment like (which chicks dig I've heard ).

Top it off with the dinner and bjd's aforementioned intercourse and gg date night

Sry if you're in a small town :club:

Go to.. zoo, aquarium, art museum, botanic garden, planetarium, take a ferry some place..

These all are available in the city I live, and most you can do free on certain days.