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Im new here but Im not new to being lonley. Im 30, im single and im starting to think there is something very wrong with me.

I used to hang out with a group of friends, they had girlfriends and boyfriends, they might be single for a week or two, but would always met someone new. I never had anyone, I figured the right guy was out there and one day id find him. I started getting depressed and soon my friends didnt want me around anymore.

I couldnt tell anyone i was lonely because there wasnt anyone to tell. By my mid 20's i was still single and now friendless, so I got determine, I changed jobs, goined the gym, lost lots of weight, had a boob job and went out dressed up and full of my new found conferdance. Well I met someone, he was great, hungout all the time, had fun, i fell in love but he didnt want a relationship. I excepted that until he met someone else. I was heart broken. I crawled back into my shell for about 3years, I think I cryed for the first year.

I then made a new friend, she intreduced me to a guy, we hungout, had fun, got on really well but he didnt want a relationship.... I then met yet another guy, guess what, after 8 months he said we were both getting to close and we couldnt hangout anymore because he didnt want a relationship. I never felt alown when I new him. It knocked the hope out of me. I have asked guys out and been laughed at, called a freak and a stalker. I thorght I was pretty normal but now im starting to giveup. I dont have anyone to go out with and im sick of going out by myself, i feel like a loser. I dont know what to do. Do I just except that this is my life, get some cats and become the town weirdo or do I keep trying to find the missing person in my life?
 
Well I dont have any advice unfortunately, but I completely understand how u feel. I feel the same with the difference that I was never in a relationship, thus I havent been broken hearted. Dont give up, u might meet a decent guy someday.
Best of luck!
 
Welcome to the forum :)

I don't really have any advice either, but don't give up.
 
yer, i never been in a relationship, iv just thorght i have been, lol. maybe il hold off getting the cats for awhile.
 
Cats.
For some reason that made me laugh.
Must have been a commercial that I saw years ago
with a cowboy on a horse herding cats. Yes, herding cats! (it was funny)
Here it is---------->

I think something must have gone wrong in our society or our age.
In times gone by I think people were less reclusive.
Now we hide behind our screens and wonder why nobody loves us.
You saying "It knocked the hope out of me." really got to me.
I feel the same way. It's like, how many times can a heart be broken before it just dies?

I had a little smidgen of hope a few months ago when I lost 20 lbs.
But I've gained back 12 and hope is fading fast.

If you do get a cat, be sure to get a laser pointer too.
Then you can really have some fun!

 

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