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Bloodelf343

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I have always thought i was ugly, i never really get any attention from the opposite sex. thought i have never been called ugly or anything. Im a lil drunk what do you think? please be gentle.....
 

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You kinda remind me of Rowan Atkinson. Whether you think he is good looking or not, he probably gets all the women.
 
I don't think you are bad looking at all, so stay confident, there is nothing wrong with your looks.

 
You look good!
Do you go out of your way to meet women, ask women out etc?
It takes a while to find someone that you're compatible with - it doesn't happen easily.
Even if the two of you are physically attracted to each other - if your personalities don't work together...what's the point?
You may have to go through a lot of rejection before you find the right one; but once you do find her it'll be all worth it. :)
 
You gotta break some eggs you wanna make an omelette, old chum.
 
Limlim said:
You kinda remind me of Rowan Atkinson. Whether you think he is good looking or not, he probably gets all the women.

Agreed! Try to be a bit more outgoing Bloodelf, if you are, your looks won't matter.
 
lol

How about I look like me and leave it at that? I am unique.

Just like everyone else....unless they have a twin :p
 
Well now I feel great, I just honeysuckle on someones head by giving them what I thought was a compliment.
 
Bloodelf, seriously, you are right.

You are unique and there is nothing wrong with your looks (see my post earlier in this thread)

Maybe you can put some gel on your hair, but that is not a major issue.
 
You are definitely not ugly. You have a distinctive face. If I were gay, I'd do you (that's meant as a compliment, btw).
 
Im not a chick but theres nothing wrong
with how u look.

Ur probably depressed from the effect of alcohol. Alcohol is a depressent.
Maybe try laying off the suace.

Maybe try wearing a different hair style
to spice up your looks. I wore my hair like yours for a little while cuz I was sort of depressed...nothing specail.
A couple of years ago..

Differnt women likes different hair style. All the women I went out with
bascailly told to do something about
my hair...to compliment their looks..
Hopes that makes sense.
Francis..one of my ex got me to wore
my hair a little bit spkies..a little bit
shorter then your.
Renae on the other hand..got me to
grew my hair ..wore it wavy semi messy
ook. Most women likes me with longer wavy hair. It matches my beach boy rocker dude perosnality.

Francis also got me to slowly change my woredrob...bascailly semi desinger jeans and designer Tishirts or shirts.
Skaters tennis or black combat boots.
Designer belts.. Stds. Dark skulls etc..
Not to shiney .


I dont have any tatoo or body pericing...so sometimes I wear
a stud wrist band..or sometype
of dark band .or a silver braclet.
Instead of a watch.
Basically a badboy mysterious look.
Im 44 and Franics was 29..
incidently Renae loves the way I was dressing or my current wordrob.

My old woredrob was plain
and boring. It was combination
of me being depressed and lazy.
I hated going shopping..especailly
for clothing. Francis had to drag me..
I also work out. Im fit.
I have a well tone body...
I can get away with wearing dark
taak tops or snug t- shirts.

I dont look over 40. Most people
thinks Im in my 30s.
.
Stuff you can do to attrack womens
attentions.

My current gf is pretty much in love
wiht me. Shes only 32.
I dont drink or use drugs..
 
You hit the nail on the head Old Son when you mentioned "Afraid Of Rejection" therein lies the problem.
 

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