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JustLost
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Not sure where to post something like this. If it's in the wrong place I apologize. I'll try to keep it short.
Several months ago I revealed my undying love and attraction to this wonderful girl across the hall where I work. Doesn't sound like such a bad thing until I mention the fact that she's 20 years old. I'm 36... She's also apparently living with someone. Yeah, I know. She thought what I had to say was very romantic (I poured my heart out to her). I'm not completely dense as I expected nothing from this, but we ended up becoming friends with occasional bouts of flirting here and there.
Over the course of several months I've ended up helping her with quite a few things. She discovered she had celiac disease, so I helped her get online and looked up "safe" food lists and recipes for her. She had me design a tattoo for her that she wanted and made a big deal about how it would be there forever and ever (that was nice). She's supposed to be taking me out to lunch as a thank you for the tattoo on the 2nd of next month.
My question is: What the heck am I supposed to do? I cannot stop thinking about this person. Should I just accept her friendship or should I keep at it and see if she falls for me? and before I get chastised for being a dirty old man, let me say this has NOTHING to do with sex. She's just everything I've ever dreamed of. I can't help but love her. I already know I'm a fool but some constructive advice would be much appreciated. HELP!
I probably could have made this shorter. Sorry...
Several months ago I revealed my undying love and attraction to this wonderful girl across the hall where I work. Doesn't sound like such a bad thing until I mention the fact that she's 20 years old. I'm 36... She's also apparently living with someone. Yeah, I know. She thought what I had to say was very romantic (I poured my heart out to her). I'm not completely dense as I expected nothing from this, but we ended up becoming friends with occasional bouts of flirting here and there.
Over the course of several months I've ended up helping her with quite a few things. She discovered she had celiac disease, so I helped her get online and looked up "safe" food lists and recipes for her. She had me design a tattoo for her that she wanted and made a big deal about how it would be there forever and ever (that was nice). She's supposed to be taking me out to lunch as a thank you for the tattoo on the 2nd of next month.
My question is: What the heck am I supposed to do? I cannot stop thinking about this person. Should I just accept her friendship or should I keep at it and see if she falls for me? and before I get chastised for being a dirty old man, let me say this has NOTHING to do with sex. She's just everything I've ever dreamed of. I can't help but love her. I already know I'm a fool but some constructive advice would be much appreciated. HELP!
I probably could have made this shorter. Sorry...