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I come across as extremely confident and friendly. I am nice and I speak very well. She said I was 'funny' and 'good looking'

I was very surprized to hear this !
 
and did you follow up with:

"wait till you see me in action this friday...when i take you out!"

???
 
putter65 said:
I come across as extremely confident and friendly. I am nice and I speak very well. She said I was 'funny' and 'good looking'

I was very surprized to hear this !

That counts as consent, gogogogogogogo!
 
blackhole said:
and did you follow up with:

"wait till you see me in action this friday...when i take you out!"

???

No, she's married.

She's just someone I've got to know a little bit this year.

 
I get that kind of thing all the time from women, so it wouldn't surprise me. What WOULD surprise me is to get it and it actually lead to us working towards a meaningful relationship.
 
If you believe it and run with it
If you run with it long enough....it'll become your beliefs system.
Kind da like positive thinking kind da thing....
Kind da like she planted a seed

We live in accordance to our beliefs.
Your behaviors and reactions will almost go on autopilot to your beliefs.
This is why discipline of our behaviors or will power alone is not enough. If you dont believe.
We must descipline or train our minds. Work it from the inside out to have lasting effects

So what is it in your beliefs system that makes it so surprizing to you?
What seeds are you watering today to reinforce your unworkable beliefs?
What beliefs do you hold at the moment that's working against you or not serving you?

If your beliefs arnt serving you...why are still holding on to them?
Ask yourself this simple question and ponder about this simple truth.


Seeds die out if you stop watering it, ignore it or cast it aside.

We are constantly being programmed...learn how to evautate or filter at first so you dont take in everything.

Example..If I tell you..."Youre a stupid ass no good piece of honeysuckle" Would you run with this?


Change your thinking change your life
 
jjam said:
I get that kind of thing all the time from women, so it wouldn't surprise me. What WOULD surprise me is to get it and it actually lead to us working towards a meaningful relationship.

I refuse to believe the 'good looking' bit. Yes I know I can tell a funny story and make people laugh.

I guess I can be confident and friendly as well in certain situations.

But the bottom line is I don't get much interest from women.



Lonesome Crow said:
If you believe it and run with it
If you run with it long enough....it'll become your beliefs system.
Kind da like positive thinking kind da thing....
Kind da like she planted a seed

We live in accordance to our beliefs.
Your behaviors and reactions will almost go on autopilot to your beliefs.
This is why discipline of our behaviors or will power alone is not enough. If you dont believe.
We must descipline or train our minds. Work it from the inside out to have lasting effects

So what is it in your beliefs system that makes it so surprizing to you?
What seeds are you watering today to reinforce your unworkable beliefs?
What beliefs do you hold at the moment that's working against you or not serving you?

If your beliefs arnt serving you...why are still holding on to them?
Ask yourself this simple question and ponder about this simple truth.


Seeds die out if you stop watering it, ignore it or cast it aside.

We are constantly being programmed...learn how to evautate or filter at first so you dont take in everything.

Example..If I tell you..."Youre a stupid ass no good piece of honeysuckle" Would you run with this?


Change your thinking change your life

I do occasionally get customers at work who say 'don't you ever smile ?' - these are the ones who I don't like and are been rude and clever. So I serve them and don't chat as much as I do with others.

I used to get upset about this but now I am more likely to say to them -'all the time !'

 
Why not tell yourself or believe that your good looking?.
You dont have anything to lose but to gain.


Im no brad pitt...but plenty of women asked me out and say im good looking


yeah... i meet negative or rude poeple from time to time. I filter those people out of my
life. Dont let them rent space in my head.


heres a pic of me.....beauty and the beast...i guess.
I'm just....sayin. if i can be with pretty women. You can too
mikeNsassy-1.jpg
 
Lonesome Crow said:
Why not tell yourself or believe that your good looking?.
You dont have anything to lose but to gain.


Im no brad pitt...but plenty of women asked me out and say im good looking


yeah... i meet negative or rude poeple from time to time. I filter those people out of my
life. Dont let them rent space in my head.


heres a pic of me.....beauty and the beast...i guess.
I'm just....sayin. if i can be with pretty women. You can too
mikeNsassy-1.jpg

I am learning to ignore rude people's comments. When I was a teenager I was extremely sensitive to remarks.

When random people on the street shout things at me, I used to get really down about that, really upset. Not so much now !

 
lonesome crow,

every time i see a picture of you, i feel like snorting huge lines of coke.

you look like some of my old amigos.
 

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