TheSolitaryMan
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This girl I've had a crush on for a while...I'm stuck in a bit of a dead end with approaching her.
She usually goes round with a group of female friends. On the rare occasion I can get myself into that group to talk (I always feel rude for just entering the conversation), she's so shy that so far she hasn't talked back to me!
Unfortunately with a hearing impairment and my own shyness, I'm really having to push my confidence to the limit to even get near to her. I think I caught her looking at me again today, though it was hard to tell if she was just thinking about something and happened to be staring at me.
The weird thing is, I've tried isolating myself in the past to see if she'll come over, but she's even more shy than me. She'll perhaps make an attempt to come nearer, but then she walks off.
It's also like she's sometimes trying to appear disinterested when I'm about (I've also subconsciously done that to her, it's dumb >_< ).
This is all adding up to be quite frustrating. I know that when I next see her things are going to unfold exactly the same. Sigh.
Another quick question - if she is looking at me, should I catch and hold eye contact? Last time I did that it was quite magical, but if she's not meaning to look at me I don't want to look like a psycho
Any ideas appreciated!
She usually goes round with a group of female friends. On the rare occasion I can get myself into that group to talk (I always feel rude for just entering the conversation), she's so shy that so far she hasn't talked back to me!
Unfortunately with a hearing impairment and my own shyness, I'm really having to push my confidence to the limit to even get near to her. I think I caught her looking at me again today, though it was hard to tell if she was just thinking about something and happened to be staring at me.
The weird thing is, I've tried isolating myself in the past to see if she'll come over, but she's even more shy than me. She'll perhaps make an attempt to come nearer, but then she walks off.
It's also like she's sometimes trying to appear disinterested when I'm about (I've also subconsciously done that to her, it's dumb >_< ).
This is all adding up to be quite frustrating. I know that when I next see her things are going to unfold exactly the same. Sigh.
Another quick question - if she is looking at me, should I catch and hold eye contact? Last time I did that it was quite magical, but if she's not meaning to look at me I don't want to look like a psycho
Any ideas appreciated!