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A Situation I Don't Want To Be In (Venting Feel Free To Ignore)
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(10-07-2011, 12:01 PM)AFrozenSoul Wrote: True, I know I am not obligated.... I just worry about getting my friend caught up in an unpleasant situation since he has a larger social circle than I.

You want to avoid drama? Be blunt and honest. Anything else is more drama and really rather unpleasant.
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#12
Yeah in the end I am just going to have to man up. Toungue for once I am glad to be sick. I can avoid her for a couple days.

-_- After all, I have received the official Facebook hangout invite. I guess as long as I make sure to not be alone with her she won't get her hopes up.
If suicide were not the answer. I would not constantly be thinking about it.
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Don't count on that...depends on how much of a mad on she has for you. I had a friend who I didn't want at a party we were having, but she was invited anyway. Even in front of all our friends she still insisted on bothering me. I told her so many times before that I wasn't interested in her other than being friends, which we were since second grade. She couldn't take no for an answer and thought that kissing me in front of our friends would change my mind. It didn't, things went bad after that. She ended up being ostracized from our circle.

Not trying to freak you out but don't count on being at a party keeping you safe. You'll have to be upfront with her and tell her that you aren't interested in a relationship with her. Hopefully she's not like my friend who couldn't take no for an answer. Some of these chicks can be hell bent crazy when they get fixated on a guy.
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When I say invite, I mean she has offered up an opportunity to hangout some other time. Nothing official, just a "Hey want to get to know me when I am sober" invitation.
If suicide were not the answer. I would not constantly be thinking about it.
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