I had to move to a new city for a job. Unfortunately, this was a city where I knew no one and I'm not married or dating anyone so it's just me out here. I don't have social anxiety but I've never been good at making friends. The few friends I made, I met in school. At this job, there are some people there around my age and we all get along and have lunch together often. After a month or so I went out one night with two of my coworkers, Bob and Steve(these aren't their real names), and we had a great time together so we keep hanging out every now and then. To keep the story short, a new guy, let's call him Bill, was hired after me and became close friends with Bob. Bob started hanging with Bill more often and it's gotten to the point where I can't even get in contact with Bob outside of work. Steve got a new girlfriend and now only spends time with her and I can't get a hold of him outside of the office either. So right now it's like I'm a friend at work but once we're outside of the office they don't know me anymore. It's feels like I was filling a void for them until they found someone they liked better. As I was drifting apart from Bob and Steve, I became closer to Jill and now it seems like the same thing is happening with her. We talk to each other all day during work hours but if I send a text to her over the weekend it's like she doesn't exist and then come Monday she talks to me like nothing ever happened, yet she fills Bob's phone with texts all weekend and Bob hates Jill. Bob talks so much honeysuckle about Jill and I defend her all the time, and now she's ignoring me for him. I'm the only one that's a real friend to her. Lately every Monday I come to work I hear about what Bob and Bill did over the weekend and about how Jill tried to meet up with them to hang out. What bothers me the most is that these people call me friend and buddy Monday through Friday during work hours but if I want to hang out outside of that time frame, I'm treated like a stranger. If I'm not your friend then don't call me a friend and pretend to be my friend at work. So basically now I'm back to being completely alone out here and I'm about to snap.