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Through a bizarre series of interactions, met someone in a city that I may be moving to in the near-ish future (about 7 months). We hit it off really well, and he is pretty flirty and has been very up front about being interested in me, but because I'm not there yet, he's being very guarded about things, which is fine - I understand not wanting to get hung up on someone who lives far away (his words).
He is also, though, pretty up front about being interested in other people that are not close by him - one person in particular, whom he pretty freely describes as a FWB, but with no real long-term/serious potential.
Now I'm a fan of honesty but the more I talk to him the more I feel like I'm waiting in some metaphorical line with a handful of other people and the less special I feel. I'm not sure whether to trust this reaction or not - after all, he's only being honest, and I do think he's genuinely interested in me. Is there such a thing as too much honesty, or should I just be glad he's being up front and see where things go? Or does this sound like he's just messing with me? Anyone else been in a situation like this, and if so how did it work out?
He is also, though, pretty up front about being interested in other people that are not close by him - one person in particular, whom he pretty freely describes as a FWB, but with no real long-term/serious potential.
Now I'm a fan of honesty but the more I talk to him the more I feel like I'm waiting in some metaphorical line with a handful of other people and the less special I feel. I'm not sure whether to trust this reaction or not - after all, he's only being honest, and I do think he's genuinely interested in me. Is there such a thing as too much honesty, or should I just be glad he's being up front and see where things go? Or does this sound like he's just messing with me? Anyone else been in a situation like this, and if so how did it work out?