kamya
Well-known member
So, every relationship I've ever been in, I've been the one getting dumped. Anyone else deal with this? It always happens around the 4-5 month mark and it is always a blindside out of nowhere kind of thing. It's getting the the point where I feel like there is just something fundamental that I am missing here. As of now I've never had a long term 1yr+ relationship.
Also, just about every time it is because of some unavoidable circumstance that the other person knew was going to possibly be a problem beforehand. Or they just bring up things that I had no idea were problems because they don't communicate these things until right when they want to breakup. It's like they wait until they are bored to bring it up as an excuse and then bam its over. Everyone wants an easy ride, they don't want to work to make things work. Or, they don't want to work for me at least. Then again, they usually find some new guy and end up pulling the same honeysuckle on him so I dunno.
I'm also going to point out that all but one of these relationships weren't even initiated by myself. If you know beforehand that things are 99% not going to work out, or if you know beforehand that you aren't going to take things seriously, why lie about it and waste my time?
Stop dumping me damnit, its not good for the soul.
Anyone else deal with this?
Also, just about every time it is because of some unavoidable circumstance that the other person knew was going to possibly be a problem beforehand. Or they just bring up things that I had no idea were problems because they don't communicate these things until right when they want to breakup. It's like they wait until they are bored to bring it up as an excuse and then bam its over. Everyone wants an easy ride, they don't want to work to make things work. Or, they don't want to work for me at least. Then again, they usually find some new guy and end up pulling the same honeysuckle on him so I dunno.
I'm also going to point out that all but one of these relationships weren't even initiated by myself. If you know beforehand that things are 99% not going to work out, or if you know beforehand that you aren't going to take things seriously, why lie about it and waste my time?
Stop dumping me damnit, its not good for the soul.
Anyone else deal with this?