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Sometimes I feel so terrible that I think that only suicide could help me... But does it really help? And what happens after death? Could I do it for my mother? I feel so horrible, because I would like to do it, but I am not brave enough. And it's not right for the people who care about me very much...

What do you think about it? Is it right or wrong...?
 
Its not right or wroung.

When your that low you don't think about anyone but yourself. How could you.

I too have not done it because am to chicken honeysuckle.

You have to remember this though. Most ppl that try suicide don't succeeded and end up hurting them self moor.

If you try and O-D you well moor then likely end up suffering for days or even weeks why your liver or kidneys stop working.
And it would be a miserable painful long drown out death.

Other ppl that have tried other things have disabled them self for life and there for have to have other ppl wipe there back side for the rest of there lives or have even made them self mentally disabled.

This thread here is still a good place to look if you feeling down that much.
I erg you to get help if your feeling this bad.

I know where your coming from cos I have been feeling like this some what as well.
It is hard but you must remind yourself that it is the most final thing you could ever do in your life.

Something I have told my self for many many years now is this life is only but a blink of the eye in evolution terms.
Surely we can endow what ever pain we have for that long.
The spirit lives for ever. I believe that. This life well not last forever. just as you thought school would never end, but it did. This life well end just the same.

If you think you are struggling here and need someone to talk to then your moor then welcome to PM me.
I cant promise I well get strait back as I may be a sleep or busy. But I well reply as soon as I can to you.

Life's to precious to throw away, your to precious.



 
I am afraid to post my opinion on this thread but I want to say that I care about you Lonelyfairy.
 
I'd love to just kill myself and get all this ******* bullshit over with, but truth is : I'm not going to let this son of a ***** called "life" get the better of me. I will survive, and even if that means living the rest of my life in devastating solitude, I think I'll just take that rather than taking the cowardly way out.
 
Sometimes I think it's a way to quickly end the pain. But I also see it as illogical.

There is always a solution to everything while we live, death is a solution only available to the elderly; when their time comes!
 
How could it help? I don't think people contemplate suicide for it's helpful nature. I think it is for attention, to escape pain, to escape thinking, to escape feeling. It is sort of like getting a burn so you run through fire to get to water. Only the water is death and there is nothing. If there was an afterlife it may be that feeling something is better then nothing. I don't believe there is anything after death though.

However, if there is an afterlife then according to traditional Christianity, if you commit suicide, you will eternally burn.
 
Hmm well if you are seriously contemplating it then there are a lot more fun ways to end your current problems. Just remember the punishment for suicide is death.
 
I think people should be allowed to do what they want with their life. There's no law against being selfish too many other ways....
 
There's a law against suicide though, isn't it technically a crime?

Anyway my views are quite personal however after having a friend go through the pain of loosing her brother I now have a much more vivid understanding of what its like from the other side.
 
yeah and they make you feel like ,......somehow worse if you don't sucesfully commit this "crime" While i was in the hosiptal I wasn't allowed to be out of anyones site...then as soon as I was well enough I was escorted, in handcuffs, to a police car then to either jail or the crazy bin. I chose the latter. but...yeah. bullshit imo

annik said:
There's a law against suicide though, isn't it technically a crime?

Anyway my views are quite personal however after having a friend go through the pain of loosing her brother I now have a much more vivid understanding of what its like from the other side.

 
Nothing happens after death. That's how I would define death: you're dead when you stop existing, because the pattern of activity that constituted your identity has been obliterated.

Therefore, although I believe people should be allowed to end their lives, I think it is basically never a good idea. A crappy life can get better, but an ended one can't.

I love life, even the lows, and hope never to die.
 
Lonely fairy, I understand wanting to cut out of here early. You think, if you just get the guts to do it, then once it's done, there will be no more pain. Yeah. I know. I had something happen to me that hurt so deeply that I wanted to die just to get a break from the pain that wouldn't let go. I was so fed up and felt my life didn't matter anyway. I have always been made to feel I was a little less than nothing by certain people I care for. I felt like suicide was the ultimate "fresia you" to the world and to all the honeysuckle I had to put up with. I researched the best ways to do it. The bad thing about failed suicide attempts is that they can really fresia your body up. You can be left in a state worse than death.

I couldn't take anymore. I wanted to die. It was at that lowest point that something spoke to me and I realized, it wasn't my body that needed to die, it was my mentality. It was the way I was handeling the problems in my life. As long as I handled them in the same way, I would continue to live in misery. I was so used to holding onto all the crap that made me hurt. I was so wrapped up in making other people happy and saving them from their mistakes only to have them hurt me. I needed to die to the way I saw things and to the people in my life that made me get to that point. I dropped those people, I started making changes in my life, and most of all, I started looking out for me. I had to take care of me. That person that looked at me from the mirror everyday was worth loving and taking care of. She needed me as much as anyone else did.

That person you look at in the mirror every morning, she's a good person and she needs you right now. Your in a bad place inside your head. There comes a time when the pain seems much greater than the reasons to live. If you think about it, I bet you will find you really don't want to die, you just want the pain to stop. There are ways to make the pain stop. Killing your body is only one of them. Try the others first. Happiness is not beyond you. You have to figure out a way to be happy. Live your life and if it comes down to it, fresia everyone and everything that tries to bring you down. Close your eyes, feel the pain and just let go....be free.

 
Arcane said:
/yeah, i couldn't even do that right. ha

SophiaGrace said:
Arcane I guess you tried to kill yourself before?
Or perhaps you only failed at that because there was still some sliver of you trying to hold on to life. Who knows? I certainly don't, and I'm guessing you don't either. Good thing is that you'll be able to find the answer to that by just living life.

No matter how suicidal someone feels, as long as you never actually attempt to kill yourself, you're probably still holding on to something. And for those who have attempted it and failed, perhaps there's a reason as to why it failed. I like to think it signifies at least something - ...
I think I should stop writing here.. doesn't feel right discussing this particular topic in such great detail. Let me know if this goes too far, I'll delete it if that's the case.


 
fyi and fun fact. On the suicide prevention course they discourage the use of "success" and "failure" with regards to suicide attempts. Instead use completed or not completed. Probably so that way people who don't complete their suicide attempts don't feel even worse for not succeeding at something else.
 

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