JustWondering
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I'm a sentimental person, I like to spend time with the people I love over everything else. I'm quite traditional and it's hard to have traditional views to relationships. I have compiled a short list and was wondering if you guys think it is fair, normal, stupid, obsessive, good or true to its cause.
These are the values I hold and wish for 'the one' to hold and my family holds and what I want our family to hold.
1. To be 100% honest. To mean and do everything we say we will.
2. To be devoted to eachother. To be willing to put everything on hold for eachother no matter how silly it is.
3. To include eachother in all decisions
4. To accept and embrace eachothers' pasts, insecurities and worries as they are part of who we are. Not ask them to change or use them against eachother.
5. To listen to eachother, realise what we say. what it means and embrace it.
6. If we are apart for a week/month/year, make plans to talk and see eachother and keep them.
7. To know I am happy alone but my dream is to have this family, to be a unit, to defend of its members even if they're in the wrong and tackle anything together.
8. To sometimes sacrifice what they want individually and do the want of the other.
(and specifically for 'the one' and I)
9. To be their last. From the beginning to the end without pauses or breaks or cracks. To experience new things together.
Thank you for reading.
These are the values I hold and wish for 'the one' to hold and my family holds and what I want our family to hold.
1. To be 100% honest. To mean and do everything we say we will.
2. To be devoted to eachother. To be willing to put everything on hold for eachother no matter how silly it is.
3. To include eachother in all decisions
4. To accept and embrace eachothers' pasts, insecurities and worries as they are part of who we are. Not ask them to change or use them against eachother.
5. To listen to eachother, realise what we say. what it means and embrace it.
6. If we are apart for a week/month/year, make plans to talk and see eachother and keep them.
7. To know I am happy alone but my dream is to have this family, to be a unit, to defend of its members even if they're in the wrong and tackle anything together.
8. To sometimes sacrifice what they want individually and do the want of the other.
(and specifically for 'the one' and I)
9. To be their last. From the beginning to the end without pauses or breaks or cracks. To experience new things together.
Thank you for reading.