Hi!
So I'm feeling a bit of emotions at the moment; new feelings I've never felt before, and would like some help in analyzing them.
Background:
I've been together with a girl for 1.5 years, we were each other's first real love and my first relationship at 23 years of age. She broke up with me a month ago, which broke both our hearts. I've met her a couple of times by accident since then and it seems we both have some feelings left. I think I'm still a bit in love with her.
Current issue:
She might have a crush on a friend of hers, she told me it might be out of loneliness since we broke up and he's been there for her. She also told me he thinks he loves her, but she doesn't love him.
Anyway. I can't stand the thought of them being intimate together. I haven't met him, but the idea makes me sick. I keep thinking they must've been doing things (is this a logical conclusion?), and I'm not quite sure what these feelings are. A little bit of rage, but also disgust, I think. Should I ask her if she's slept with him?
What is this, and how do I handle it?
So I'm feeling a bit of emotions at the moment; new feelings I've never felt before, and would like some help in analyzing them.
Background:
I've been together with a girl for 1.5 years, we were each other's first real love and my first relationship at 23 years of age. She broke up with me a month ago, which broke both our hearts. I've met her a couple of times by accident since then and it seems we both have some feelings left. I think I'm still a bit in love with her.
Current issue:
She might have a crush on a friend of hers, she told me it might be out of loneliness since we broke up and he's been there for her. She also told me he thinks he loves her, but she doesn't love him.
Anyway. I can't stand the thought of them being intimate together. I haven't met him, but the idea makes me sick. I keep thinking they must've been doing things (is this a logical conclusion?), and I'm not quite sure what these feelings are. A little bit of rage, but also disgust, I think. Should I ask her if she's slept with him?
What is this, and how do I handle it?