Have you ever been hanging out or doing whatever with other ppl and suddenly someone asks you something like "you are not talking much?"
This happened to me today, I was with some friends and some were friends of my friends, this girl suddenly asked me that very question. I didn't say anything back.
It makes me feel like crap, I start thinking "this girl probably thinks I'm in a bad mood or that I'm bothered or that I'm unfriendly" when I'm not, I just don't have anything to say... I can't help but to start wondering how other people interpretate my behaviour.
Maybe I should think of an answer to that question so next time it doesn't catch me by surprise...
Honestly, it makes me feel sad, I try hard to talk but sometimes I just don't have anything to say... I can't come up with anything. It bothers me and I don't need other people pointing it out, I already know... I don't blame them but... I feel sad now
So does this happen to anyone? people directly asking you why you are not talking?
This happened to me today, I was with some friends and some were friends of my friends, this girl suddenly asked me that very question. I didn't say anything back.
It makes me feel like crap, I start thinking "this girl probably thinks I'm in a bad mood or that I'm bothered or that I'm unfriendly" when I'm not, I just don't have anything to say... I can't help but to start wondering how other people interpretate my behaviour.
Maybe I should think of an answer to that question so next time it doesn't catch me by surprise...
Honestly, it makes me feel sad, I try hard to talk but sometimes I just don't have anything to say... I can't come up with anything. It bothers me and I don't need other people pointing it out, I already know... I don't blame them but... I feel sad now
So does this happen to anyone? people directly asking you why you are not talking?