labelsorlove3
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So I was introduced to this guy about two months ago. We started talking on the phone and texting a lot (we were introduced at a friends engagement party). We have A LOT in common and we talked for hours everyday. After talking for a few weeks he asked me if I wanted to get a drink, and our plans ended up falling through. Then we were supposed to get dinner two days later and since he had canceled plans two days before I figured I'd wait for him to contact me after work on the day of our dinner date. I never heard from him. Saturday he texted me and asked why I didn't call him, that he thought we had plans? (Why couldn't he have called me?) So at this point I was extremely frustrated. We made plans to get dinner on Wednesday after I got out of work (because my friends told me to give him one more chance 'hes a great guy') and he called me after work on Wednesday, said he would call back when he was ready to leave and I didn't hear from him until today.
Today he just said 'hey' out of nowhere. Then he went on to tell me that I'm intimidating and I make him nervous and he doesn't want to mess this up. To be honest I had already moved on, I mean three chances seems like more than fair to me. He continued to text me I told him I wasn't interested in anything more than friends so he proceeds to tell me "well fine then I'm going to get a drunk girl at the bar to go home with me." I'm not exaggerating this conversation at all, this all really just happened. I said something like "good for you... have a fun night..." then he said "screw you , good night." Five minutes later I get a text from his phone from some random person asking me if I was this guys girlfriend... I said no why? And he said that this guy (lets call him Greg) came up to him... said "screw this girl" threw his phone at him and walked away.
I mean obviously this guy is not the guy for me but I'm just wondering why he would ditch me three times in a row and then get extremely upset when I have lost interest. Could he really have meant that he found me intimidating... I mean if a guy finds me intimidating wouldn't he at least have the decency to text me and say "I'm not ready to go on a one-on-one date." I'm shy too... but am I wrong for being upset over everything that has happened?
Today he just said 'hey' out of nowhere. Then he went on to tell me that I'm intimidating and I make him nervous and he doesn't want to mess this up. To be honest I had already moved on, I mean three chances seems like more than fair to me. He continued to text me I told him I wasn't interested in anything more than friends so he proceeds to tell me "well fine then I'm going to get a drunk girl at the bar to go home with me." I'm not exaggerating this conversation at all, this all really just happened. I said something like "good for you... have a fun night..." then he said "screw you , good night." Five minutes later I get a text from his phone from some random person asking me if I was this guys girlfriend... I said no why? And he said that this guy (lets call him Greg) came up to him... said "screw this girl" threw his phone at him and walked away.
I mean obviously this guy is not the guy for me but I'm just wondering why he would ditch me three times in a row and then get extremely upset when I have lost interest. Could he really have meant that he found me intimidating... I mean if a guy finds me intimidating wouldn't he at least have the decency to text me and say "I'm not ready to go on a one-on-one date." I'm shy too... but am I wrong for being upset over everything that has happened?