Waiting4change
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I've recently been thinking did I overeact to my families behavior in a particular situation. Here goes about a year ago the grandchildren that I'm raising their mother agreed to pick them up 2 or 3 afternoons that I was in class and not at home to get them off the bus. (she previously had lived in my home but due to her disrespect she couldn't remain). I was expecting a check from christmas savings fund, I never recieved. Found out later that it was mailed and cashed. Long story short she cashed the check, stole and pawned 2 cameras and a camcorder when picking them up. I prosecuted her. But my family (i.e. sister, niece, and a cousin) continues to have contact, none of them ever said anything to her about the incident, not one word. They all felt that since I was a Christian I should forgive and move on. I didn't expect any of them to stop with her contact, but at least tell her that her behavior was unacceptable. They kept telling me you know she has problems, and she's the kids mother, just let it go. No one understood the betrayal and violation I felt. I felt betrayed by them as well. Am I overeacting