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evanescencefan91
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I got introduced to a friend of a friend a week or two ago and she seems pretty cool and we went to a concert a week ago (great concert, great local bands by the way)
Anyways I was checking on fb earlier and her status was kind of/ pretty much implying suicide and I noticed no one else had commented so I called her to make sure she was ok and talked for a bit and she had been going through a lot. I've never called anyone in this situation, I felt kind of scared. She said had gone through some stuff worse than me, and had bad really bad anxiety, I mentioned that I had dealt with some anxiety in my life as well.
She mentioned we should hang out or go to the rec center together I said that would probably be cool I've got a lot going with finals coming up but I'd be free this weekend and she could text me.
I don't want to seem mean, like I don't want to friends with someone who has so much going on, they need friends. But I'm just concerned a little, I don't really know much about her or how much she is going through, and I'm afraid something bad might happen or I might make things worse somehow. I want to help her out because I've been in some bad places myself wanting some friends,I just hope nothing bad happens, I'm also kind of worried I might get wound up or in in with some the bad stuff she's been going through, I guess that may seem a little selfesh, I don't want stuff getting messed up in my life either again.
I just wanted to talk about this a little and share my concerns
thanks for listening
Anyways I was checking on fb earlier and her status was kind of/ pretty much implying suicide and I noticed no one else had commented so I called her to make sure she was ok and talked for a bit and she had been going through a lot. I've never called anyone in this situation, I felt kind of scared. She said had gone through some stuff worse than me, and had bad really bad anxiety, I mentioned that I had dealt with some anxiety in my life as well.
She mentioned we should hang out or go to the rec center together I said that would probably be cool I've got a lot going with finals coming up but I'd be free this weekend and she could text me.
I don't want to seem mean, like I don't want to friends with someone who has so much going on, they need friends. But I'm just concerned a little, I don't really know much about her or how much she is going through, and I'm afraid something bad might happen or I might make things worse somehow. I want to help her out because I've been in some bad places myself wanting some friends,I just hope nothing bad happens, I'm also kind of worried I might get wound up or in in with some the bad stuff she's been going through, I guess that may seem a little selfesh, I don't want stuff getting messed up in my life either again.
I just wanted to talk about this a little and share my concerns
thanks for listening