lots of people going with the idea that they don't really like it, but aren't willing to straight out not call it an artform or a form of music. i respect that. i am curious as to why people don't like it. i get that its merely not many people's cup of tea, and that's cool. i'm just curious i guess.
SophiaGrace said:
Lonely in BC said:
To each their own RJLJD. I really can't stand rap, gives me an instant headache and after awhile I end up booting the radio it's playing on (I've punted 3 DeWalt job site radios in the last 10 years- the kids that used to work for me used to get a "kick" out of watching those things explode into dozens of pieces). Imagine how bad it would have been if I had an actual anger control issue!
Since you mentioned objectivity, I do have a perspective to draw from. When I was a teen way back in the dark ages I remember my father running into the house like the hounds of hell were on his heels to yank my couple of hours old Kiss "Destroyer" album off the turntable and throw it at me. Hard. As in cuts to the body broken record hard. The old man was kind of partial to Kenny Rogers, Frank Mills, Roy Orbison, etc., so my devil music was enough to make him do a Linda Blair (the girl in "The Exorcist" who's head turned completely around for those who don't know).
Guess what goes around comes around.
Soooooo grateful my kid likes rock. That'll likely backfire on me one day though.
Your old man was an *******. You don't throw honeysuckle at someone that could hurt them.
I prefer to throw empty tissue boxes and milk caps at people when i'm mad.
yeah, to throw the albums at you, that's idiotic to say the least. i'm not lucky enough to not live in an opinioned household, but i just keep my music quiet, in my headphones, or only play it aloud when no one is home, and there is no problem. the actual presence of it in the house isn't an issue. i would be disappointed for you to continue the same circular path of music closemindedness though.
Mouse said:
I can't stand Rap. This style of music "shouts" at me rather than music that I prefer which "talks to". I like music that lifts my spirit, calms my inner being or encourages contemplation.
I was raised by a father whose love for music spanned many genres, but even he would have spat bile on hearing Eminem's grating voice, for example. Dad's memory lives on in my heart in the fabulous music collection he left us. My brother estimates some 5,000 vinyl LPs and that's discounting CDs. Except there would not be one single Rap record in the vast musical library we keep. If it there such a CD it would undoubtedly be coffee stained.
Music is evocative; we cannot change who we are or how we feel. One cannot say this type of music or, that is the best. If we hate a particular track, all we have to do is switch it off. All of us are as different as chalk is from cheese, even mouse cheese.
fair enough. i don't like the idea of discounting an entire genre of music or art as not good enough for a person. i'm much more of the mindset of whomever said it (i apologize i forgot who it was) that said ALL music has its good and bad and you have to dig a little for the good. i think that's more consistent with the truth than anything. i'll be the first to say there is some straight trash rap music out there. there's some very inventive, intelligent, moving, and inspirational music as well though. its probably the same way with other music.
further, i find it funny that you don't like the delivery of rap music. that's part of what interests me in rap. technically, anyone can contribute. you don't need to be a good singer to rap. rap is more speech than singing, anyone can try it. anyone can lay a verse, and therefore let themselves be heard through music in a personal manner. that's can't be said about other genres. even with that said, i understand that it grates on you. i've heard other people say similar about "white guys moaning over guitars" (not me) so i understand it goes both ways.
Sci-Fi said:
I hate rap "music" so I'll say no it's not "real" music. But music is whatever it is to each person, love it or hate it, we all have our own tastes.
once again, i wouldn't go as far as to say it isn't real music. that you don't like it is fine, but to lump an entire genre in a box is foolish.
Syber Tiger said:
yes, but isn't all songwriting to an extent? and i encourage you to try to put together a verse like that, a quality one. its doable, but its a lot more difficult than you may think.
Nolife Princess said:
I live in the RAP capital ...Atlanta.
....And all I am going to say is, Rap is definitely not what it used to be.
A very true statement, and I would go further to say rap was better when Atlanta WASN'T the unofficial capital of rap (i think that distinction is slowly going away, but there was a time rappers could get a deal rolling out of bed just because they were from ATL).
rap's renaissance as we know it truly was in the mid 90s before the deaths of TuPac and Notorious BIG, at the same time, there is still some very quality music being made today, both in the mainstream and out of the mainstream.