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I really, really wish I was handsome. If I was handsome maybe I'd be confident enough to get a girlfriend, and maybe I wouldn't feel so alone all the time.

But I look at pretty girls and they depress me because I know that they'll never like a guy who looks like I do. I was at a party last night and some guy felt sorry for me and decided to try and introduce a girl to me. He told her my name and pointed me out, she looked at me and then shook her head and went back to ignoring me.

I wish I was handsome but it's never going to happen and the best I can hope for is that some girl will eventually lower her standards enough that she'll settle for me.
 
I'm pretty sure a lot of people will agree with me- you look just fine.

Life is kinda like poker, it's not the hand that matters, it's the way you approach it.

BTW, even the prettiest girl in the world could turn your life to hell if you are not compatible.
 
Youre a fine looking young man.
Im not sure what type of activites youre into.
Im musician and skatboarder.
So i dressed accordingly.

Im older...in my 40s.
In my casual, I wear
Boot cut jeans and a semi
Tight T shirt or a tank top. In
SKATERS SHOES...SUCH AS VANS.
A stud belt with a skull buckle.
My hair is wavy and i also have shadez.
Sometimes i wear a braclet...it looks out
Place for reasons...to draw certain females
Attentions..
some poeple might think im immature or childish,
BUT I HAVE BALLS TO BE A COOL MATHA FREAKEN STUD.LOL
I walk with my head held high and stroll
Like i dont give a fresia


I also stay fit and firm.

My fiance,exgf..etc
Pretty much helped me picked out my clothe.
They tell me what i look good in...so its all
Good.
 
tproc said:
I wish I was handsome but it's never going to happen and the best I can hope for is that some girl will eventually lower her standards enough that she'll settle for me.
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I hope you don't have to wait that long as I'm not sure when that happens. Might not be until they turn 70 that they will do that.

By the time women lower their standards to settle for me, they will no longer be up to my standards. *laughs*
 
:O

tproc, where abouts are you from ?

I saw your post on the faces forum earlier, and I was like 'fresia I wish I could look good like that' :p

Girls in clubs (and I say this without any offense to any ravers here :p) are notoriously arrogant. It's beyond rude just to turn around and ignore you, but so many people do at parties, it's just the way so many people are...

The problem isn't in your looks, trust me ;p The only thing I can reccomend, from personal experience, is that it could be related to having a low self esteem. Girls, especially in socially heavy places like clubs and parties, really seem to be able to pick up on it :p

But I don't think that's a problem either. Keep being yourself and I think you will find plenty of girls who want you ;D You look young, you got so much more ahead of you, trust me! :D
 
Well, you certainly received a warm reception on the faces thread. At least people on ALL think you're handsome, even if you don't think so.

Unfortunately low self-esteem and a poor self image are problems for a lot of people on here. Just because you weren't that girl's type - for whatever reason - doesn't mean you won't be someone else's. You shouldn't be so quick to give up hope, you are still young after all.
 
If that is you in your profile picture, I would say you look very handsome. How old are you? Are you in high school? If so, that is probably the root of your problem. I remember in high school so many people were so picky about looks and status that you practically had to walk in on a red carpet to be accepted. It is different when you get older. Of course, you are faced with new challenges, but people tend to be more accepting of one another.
 
The colures i wear are dark or mostly black...its not loud or shinie.
Im like a mysterious creature.lol
It still draws attention from certain types
of women...
I dated plenty of professional women.lol
I have a good sense of humor.
I dont take myself too serious all the time....less tension or vibe.
Some people will be more relax around
me...easier to get along with or socialize.
I have chit chat with strangers all the time....crack jokes or whatever.
 
Thomas] said:
:O

tproc, where abouts are you from ?

I saw your post on the faces forum earlier, and I was like 'fresia I wish I could look good like that' :p

Girls in clubs (and I say this without any offense to any ravers here :p) are notoriously arrogant. It's beyond rude just to turn around and ignore you, but so many people do at parties, it's just the way so many people are...

The problem isn't in your looks, trust me ;p The only thing I can reccomend, from personal experience, is that it could be related to having a low self esteem. Girls, especially in socially heavy places like clubs and parties, really seem to be able to pick up on it :p

But I don't think that's a problem either. Keep being yourself and I think you will find plenty of girls who want you ;D You look young, you got so much more ahead of you, trust me! :D
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Firstly, Thomas, I think you are so freaking cute it's not funny, and tproc, you are very cute for a youngin' and I'm sure you will get better with age. Like Sute said everyone looks good to someone. If that girl didn't like you just cause of your looks she isn't worth your time, I promise.
 
Is that you in your profile pic? No homo but you look like a good looking young fella. I'm going to go watch some girl on girl porn now after saying that. :D LOL
 
You look perfectly suave and fine OP, this is a classic self-esteem issue!

I have it too. You probably also find it very difficult to accept compliments?

Everyone has a different idea of handsome/hot/cute/attractive/pretty (depending on gender) as well, so it's absolutely nothing to worry about.

Don't be down on yourself, you have no reason to be :)
 
I don't know. At least with insults, I know where I stand.
With compliments, I'm not sure. I never can tell if it's the truth or just something to try to make me feel better.

Like when people call me "cute". It's almost always just a lie to try to make me feel better.
 
tproc said:
I really, really wish I was handsome. If I was handsome maybe I'd be confident enough to get a girlfriend, and maybe I wouldn't feel so alone all the time.

But I look at pretty girls and they depress me because I know that they'll never like a guy who looks like I do.
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Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett, whom most regard as a very homely man, if not outright ugly. She saw something in him beyond his looks, and if you listen to the absolutely fearless boogie he and Ray Charles put out you will know what that is.

It's more a matter of what you are putting out there, than what you look like.

 
But then he's a musician. There is a history of rock stars dating super models (even though I never found Julia Roberts to be attractive).
 
Love or women is not something you look for! I think that it need's to just happen. Sure, there are people who search someone and they found it, but i think that in most cases, if you are yourself, there will come a girl/boy with you will just connect :)

And remember:
"To the world you may just be someone, but to someone you may be the whole world." and so will be you.
Take time, be yourself...
 
inspiration_123 said:
Love or women is not something you look for! I think that it need's to just happen. Sure, there are people who search someone and they found it, but i think that in most cases, if you are yourself, there will come a girl/boy with you will just connect :)
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not if the only people you can find to be around are married or other guys.
 
u look good

i will love to look like you,ur way better looking than me

and remember there is always girls who whont like you
BUT THERE is alway those that DO

the thing is u have to find them,HOW? idk if u known that awnser i wont be here :(

but ya there are that spesial person out there and u will find hir

and why wast your time on someone that dont want you around/be with you
F...THem
 

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