This whole attraction thing is starting to bug me

Im sorry to bug you guys again...

I want to get rid of these feelings of attraction, i think its the center of my depression. I hate how it becomes some natural goal in my life, and i hate how it dominates my thoughts often. I hate the fact that my body wants to feel attracted to someone else. I don’t need this ignorant feeling of wanting someone, i just want to keep my feelings of moving forward and doing my best. I don’t want my efforts clouded by some Idiotic human reproductive system.

Honestly, what is being in some relationship going to do for me? spend more money? waste more of my time? im fine with friends, im fine with family. Im fine with caring about people, but i HATE these feelings when i see someone attractive or something that is "arousing". Its like im not in my right mind. Can someone help me? Is there some way to stop these feelings?

Can't really say there is a way to prevent them, it's a part of your instinctive biology. If we didn't feel a physical need to reproduce, the human race would have gone extinct many years ago. You can however trump the desire with other things. I personally use travel. For instance, after you've witnessed the Serengeti Migration or stood in the shade of the pyramids it's hard to see beauty of the same degree in a woman.

Some anti depressants kill sex drive, but I wouldn't go with that. Especially not after all the recent celeb deaths.

Do what I do: watch a lot of porn, and forget about girls.

Are you talking about being romantically or sexually attracted? Or both?