I am 17, I have a very lonely life. So the story began since when i was young, I was raised in a strict family causing me to be very passive. Therefore, I do not have a good relationship with my whole family including relatives. They have accused me of serious offense before. I was bullied mentally and sometimes physically in school. Therefore, I have very low self-esteem and low confidence. I do not know how to overcome this and I have very few friends.
I met a friend at school a year back, I thought he was good but unfortunately he threatened me. I call this friend "A". I also met a "B" friend, he borrowed money from me and never returned it. Since "A" and "B" know each other, I felt they are dragging down my life. "A" and "B" do not have a good relationship too and I fear me being in the middle will be affected by this problem. I always feel threatened by them even if they did not threaten me. This is maybe a trauma. I somehow live through life pretty badly.
I know I explained this situation poorly, it is just too much emotional charged stuff inside this conflict. I just want to talk to more people have friends and live a normal life. It is not that hard right? Somehow I do not know why I cannot do so. Can someone please help?
I met a friend at school a year back, I thought he was good but unfortunately he threatened me. I call this friend "A". I also met a "B" friend, he borrowed money from me and never returned it. Since "A" and "B" know each other, I felt they are dragging down my life. "A" and "B" do not have a good relationship too and I fear me being in the middle will be affected by this problem. I always feel threatened by them even if they did not threaten me. This is maybe a trauma. I somehow live through life pretty badly.
I know I explained this situation poorly, it is just too much emotional charged stuff inside this conflict. I just want to talk to more people have friends and live a normal life. It is not that hard right? Somehow I do not know why I cannot do so. Can someone please help?