There are so many people I know of who are so happy and bubbly because they have so many friends and it's only cause they look good and have money. They look down upon people who aren't like them as if it's their fault that they aren't as beautiful or popular. These people have had so many fun and great experiences in their life because of their good luck. It makes me think of how shitty and lonely my life has been. I'll see like teenagers just laughing together at the mall and even that will make me depressed cause I never had that. And that alone just makes me want to die so bad so I don't have to witness it anymore.
I normally tend to look down on the people laughing, due to whatever they are talking about is hallow and empty. And whether they are like us or not its sad that really wouldnt bring me any joy. Would it make you feel any better?
At my high school, the popular in-group consisted solely of pretty, rich girls. I actually read a paper, whilst in uni, about attractiveness. It was about a study that involved rating faces which varied in facial attractiveness on intelligence, warmth and other traits that I can't remember. In fact, loads of studies have been done, and they consistently found that good-looking people were rated as more intelligent, friendly, and everything else - even if they were in fact less intelligent etc. That's just what society is like, I guess. :/
they annoy me too. Stupid shallow society.
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lonelyloser Wrote:These people have had so many fun and great experiences in their life because of their good luck. It makes me think of how shitty and lonely my life has been. I'll see like teenagers just laughing together at the mall and even that will make me depressed cause I never had that. And that alone just makes me want to die so bad so I don't have to witness it anymore.
That's exactly how I feel. Even on this forum. =_= I also hate seeing little kids playing together and laughing. I had no friends when I was a kid. Never. I didn't even play soccer once. I had no interaction with other kids. I feel like a leper.
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I don't think it has to do with looks. There are plenty of fat ulgy people who are way more popular because they have a good personality. It doesn't matter if you're unattractive, an attractive personality really does make up for it. If you think someone has friends just because they look good or have money then they probably aren't friends, just people trying to use them.If they're happy it is maybe because they are that shallow, but who can blame them? Maybe they aren't bad people, just people in different situation so they live accordingly. They're lucky? Then leave it at that and move on...someone is always lucky. A lot of things can be blamed on luck, but at some point you must take responsibility for being who you are.
Just be careful you aren't the shallow one because of the way you judge them.