So I am at the strip club with a couple of my buddies and we grabbed a table close to perverts row but not quite on it. We grabbed a round of beers and prepared to watch some women take their clothes off while we awaited a pleasant night of commenting on their bodies and treating them like objects.
So it begins, the waitress is doing her job of making sure to check every 20 seconds that you have something to drink and you've been there a couple of hours and seen a handful of girls do their thing on stage. At this point the dancers who have finished their turn will put on skimpy outfits and walk around the room asking everyone if they want to spend $20 for a lapdance in the private lounge.
But here's the thing, they don't just poke you and ask you straight up, they sit down all smiles, ask your name and how you're doing and then chat you up for a few minutes before asking, and then look somewhat annoyed when you say you're not interested. (Not that I wasn't interested, just that I wasn't $20 interested)
I'm never quite sure what to do at this point, I feel like I wasted her time by letting her continue the foreplay when I could have just said right away "Sorry I don't want a dance" as soon as she sat down, but that also seems like a kind of rude thing to do, even though it would probably help her out since she wouldn't be wasting a bunch of time on me which could be spent asking someone else.
What is the proper thing to do in this situation? I mean the obvious answer would be don't go to a strip club when you're not prepared to spend the extra money. But it's always been considered that the lapdances are something above and beyond what is expected of you to buy while there.
So it begins, the waitress is doing her job of making sure to check every 20 seconds that you have something to drink and you've been there a couple of hours and seen a handful of girls do their thing on stage. At this point the dancers who have finished their turn will put on skimpy outfits and walk around the room asking everyone if they want to spend $20 for a lapdance in the private lounge.
But here's the thing, they don't just poke you and ask you straight up, they sit down all smiles, ask your name and how you're doing and then chat you up for a few minutes before asking, and then look somewhat annoyed when you say you're not interested. (Not that I wasn't interested, just that I wasn't $20 interested)
I'm never quite sure what to do at this point, I feel like I wasted her time by letting her continue the foreplay when I could have just said right away "Sorry I don't want a dance" as soon as she sat down, but that also seems like a kind of rude thing to do, even though it would probably help her out since she wouldn't be wasting a bunch of time on me which could be spent asking someone else.
What is the proper thing to do in this situation? I mean the obvious answer would be don't go to a strip club when you're not prepared to spend the extra money. But it's always been considered that the lapdances are something above and beyond what is expected of you to buy while there.