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well...it's actaully the short form none sugar version of the serenity prayer. LET GO....
The paradox of it all.

Sometimes you'll get so caught up in fitting in. Worrying what others
think, compete, compair, try to make everyone else happy, love earning.
All that honeysuckle turns into moosh and a cluster fresia.
You find yourself unhappy, never good enough and walking a tight rope
or on eggshells trying to fit into a cookie cutter mole.

If you do something...the people on right say Yes and the people on left
says, No.

You have guilt and shame bouncing back and forth.

Cant make no one happy...so you might as will do what you wanna do.
So you start looking out for number 1...some people say it's self fish,
others say it's self loving.
Weight out the payoffs and consequences...Take a risk oneway or the
other. You win some..you loose some.

As far as fresia it in self dystructions or sabatage.
Thats like a process in itself too. You'll learn to stop beating
up on yourself. Sit in your own bullshit for a while. It's like
a deep learning of not putting your hands in the fire again.
Everyone have thier own bottom. In that process you learn
to stand on your own two feet....

No one built you up.. therefore they cant take you down.

You stop judging and condeming youself.
You love yourself unconditionally with all your assest and flaws.

Some people term this self actualizations.
 

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