Ribstaylor
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Hey everyone im 21 and new to the forum and thought I'd make my first thread on the topic of getting annoyed or bored during conversations with women.
I've recently come to the conclusion that all the women I've met and know over the last 4 years annoy the hell out of me if I'm talking to them for any lengthy period of time. If what they have to say doesn't annoy me well it sure bores me to the point of not wanting to be around them.
I haven't all ways been this way i frequented many social circles from low to high status (popularity) in high-school and in my life since but only the groups of girls that weren't dolled up or ditsy ever could hold an interesting conversation. These girls were often the odd types out if you take what modern culture portrays a young women to be. And to be honest girls I am not physically and sexually attracted to.
Now I'm not the type to judge based on looks, but for me to enter in a relationship there needs to be that physical attraction, but just as important is I find you intellectually interesting and stimulating. And it seems to me that these women are far and in between.
I realize there are women who probably fit both criteria but for 4 years I haven't met a single girl within the social circles I frequent or the bars or parties, that can ever keep me interested in what she has to say for more then a few minutes. I don't care why your mad at your friend or why she made you wear that shirt. I don't care about what that girl said or what gossip you have about others. This idle boring talk that I only ever get from women turns me off and away instantly.
I even find a lot of young women don't seem to have opinions on real world issues and problems. It's like their mind has never strayed form the cookie cutter ideal of what they should think and care about. Now I'm a highly opinionated person on many subjects and I love bouncing ideas of people. I talk a lot when I'm in a good mood and being around women brings that out in me. But as usual i get bored or annoyed quickly.
Now I don't know if this is due to the fact that i often think outside the box and look at everything with a certain skepticism, which these women do not. Or the women I'm meeting just aren't interesting people to talk to in general. It's become a serious problem in my life since i haven't been able to enter into a relationship with anyone due to the fact non of these women interest me.
Well enough of me ranting I'll end the wall of text with a question for all the young guys on this forum. Do you find most young women boring and annoying to talk to? If so why?
I've recently come to the conclusion that all the women I've met and know over the last 4 years annoy the hell out of me if I'm talking to them for any lengthy period of time. If what they have to say doesn't annoy me well it sure bores me to the point of not wanting to be around them.
I haven't all ways been this way i frequented many social circles from low to high status (popularity) in high-school and in my life since but only the groups of girls that weren't dolled up or ditsy ever could hold an interesting conversation. These girls were often the odd types out if you take what modern culture portrays a young women to be. And to be honest girls I am not physically and sexually attracted to.
Now I'm not the type to judge based on looks, but for me to enter in a relationship there needs to be that physical attraction, but just as important is I find you intellectually interesting and stimulating. And it seems to me that these women are far and in between.
I realize there are women who probably fit both criteria but for 4 years I haven't met a single girl within the social circles I frequent or the bars or parties, that can ever keep me interested in what she has to say for more then a few minutes. I don't care why your mad at your friend or why she made you wear that shirt. I don't care about what that girl said or what gossip you have about others. This idle boring talk that I only ever get from women turns me off and away instantly.
I even find a lot of young women don't seem to have opinions on real world issues and problems. It's like their mind has never strayed form the cookie cutter ideal of what they should think and care about. Now I'm a highly opinionated person on many subjects and I love bouncing ideas of people. I talk a lot when I'm in a good mood and being around women brings that out in me. But as usual i get bored or annoyed quickly.
Now I don't know if this is due to the fact that i often think outside the box and look at everything with a certain skepticism, which these women do not. Or the women I'm meeting just aren't interesting people to talk to in general. It's become a serious problem in my life since i haven't been able to enter into a relationship with anyone due to the fact non of these women interest me.
Well enough of me ranting I'll end the wall of text with a question for all the young guys on this forum. Do you find most young women boring and annoying to talk to? If so why?