2fresh4youx
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I always hear people say 'We have so much in common" and blah blah blah when they date people. Well, the fact is, I have really weird interests that I'm almost positive, no one would either understand or would simply just write me off over. I mean, I consider myself to be an extremely rare individual with a unique variety of hobbies in things, but most, if not all of these things, no girl would ever find attractive, nor would they be into.
If you met me in real life, I come across as a fairly confident, attractive individual but if you do some digging, you'll find that I'm not what you think I am. I seem to be able to do small talk with people really well, but after a few minutes I always find myself thinking how different I am to these people. I used to lie about my interests and opinions on things but have recently developed a way of simply "telling the truth". Most people don't agree with me, nor do they find anything I do interesting at all. Usually they'll just give me a blank stare or something and their body language usually indicates that they write me off as "Boring!".
And when it comes to friends and relationships, I find the thought mere impossible, because of how different I am and I would in no way be able to hold a conversation with someone. Most of the time, it'll work out three ways:
1. They become bored of me and it just becomes awkward
2. I become bored of them, yet they continue to blabber on about themselves and their interests and never ask me about mine.
3. We seem to get along, they're interested in me, but usually they continue to point out how different I am and snarl everytime I bring up my opinion of something or one of my interests. Really, all they are doing is laughing at me for being different and their pea-sized brains cannot comprehend that not all people follow the trends of society like mindless sheep. I've began being able to not care about what these people think anymore, but it still doesn't help the fact that I'm still different and unique and it doesn't stop them from saying so all the time.
And I'll conclude by saying, that I'm a fairly old-fashioned kind of guy. I'm so different to my generation. Most people my age are so outrighteously opinionated about everything, thinking they know best and more then older generations. I'd love it if a woman was into an old fashioned fellow such as myself
I feel like my own personality and beliefs is what holds me back in the dating world.
If you met me in real life, I come across as a fairly confident, attractive individual but if you do some digging, you'll find that I'm not what you think I am. I seem to be able to do small talk with people really well, but after a few minutes I always find myself thinking how different I am to these people. I used to lie about my interests and opinions on things but have recently developed a way of simply "telling the truth". Most people don't agree with me, nor do they find anything I do interesting at all. Usually they'll just give me a blank stare or something and their body language usually indicates that they write me off as "Boring!".
And when it comes to friends and relationships, I find the thought mere impossible, because of how different I am and I would in no way be able to hold a conversation with someone. Most of the time, it'll work out three ways:
1. They become bored of me and it just becomes awkward
2. I become bored of them, yet they continue to blabber on about themselves and their interests and never ask me about mine.
3. We seem to get along, they're interested in me, but usually they continue to point out how different I am and snarl everytime I bring up my opinion of something or one of my interests. Really, all they are doing is laughing at me for being different and their pea-sized brains cannot comprehend that not all people follow the trends of society like mindless sheep. I've began being able to not care about what these people think anymore, but it still doesn't help the fact that I'm still different and unique and it doesn't stop them from saying so all the time.
And I'll conclude by saying, that I'm a fairly old-fashioned kind of guy. I'm so different to my generation. Most people my age are so outrighteously opinionated about everything, thinking they know best and more then older generations. I'd love it if a woman was into an old fashioned fellow such as myself
I feel like my own personality and beliefs is what holds me back in the dating world.