Porn is only an object, the symbol by which you projected your need for control and power. But like any other symbol, it can be powerful and by destroying it, you might be confronting a much more significant inner demon.
I should add that I'm a fairly unapologetic viewer of porn and actually write erotica(and have sent it to female friends who requested it); how much porn I watch depends on the day and mood. I have a gigantic stash, over a gigabyte, but tend to only indulge in it once or twice a month for a few dedicated hours. I'm entirely shameless about it, as not only do I view it, but I also share it pics over MSN with my best friend online. Porn does bore me fast, regretfully.
My belief is that I am a healthy young man, which includes having a healthy sex drive which I refuse to apologize for, and this includes vicariously satisfying it with attractive women. My thoughts are my own, and I refuse to censor or deny anything to the theater of my mind. I can maintain a clear divide between fantasy and reality, and do not see the harm in watching recordings or photos of girls having simulated or real sex.
I've never worried about objectification because I know I appreciate women for their minds and souls as much as their bodies, though that does not certainly preclude me from appreciating a woman for her physical gifts. Porn by itself, I noted, tends to bore me swiftly if its without a sense of emotional content or connection with the actors.
Pornographically yours,
IO