HiddenHydey said:
Looks don't matter to me, all I want is a girl with a lot of money looking for a short term marriage.
HAHAHAHA! You win at life, sir.
As for me, well, I'm not exactly single and looking, and I've found that lists generally exist to be broken. Nonetheless, they're fun to make and help me define at least one or two things that I look for.
She
must be,
- Feminine - L once said that if a woman didn't act like one, what was the point of her being a woman? This trait really encompasses a large number of behaviors, both positive and negative, but I've come to realize that I greatly appreciate a girl if she buys heavily into being feminine.
E, another one of my friends, said that my tastes in women were pretty simple: feminine beauties. In retrospect, I chuckle and can't disagree. I don't mind a certain degree of tomboyishness, so as long as she also has a number of feminine traits.
- Patient - a necessity. Heaven knows that I'm not always perfect, and if she can't be patient and forgiving, we won't last very long at all. That's probably one of the reasons why I messed up with C. Unfortunately, I'm not going to be perfect, and if a girl can't be patient with my foibles...yeah.
- Have a sense of humor - my supply of wit and sarcasm is inexhaustable. She has to appreciate it or she'll find it very unpleasant to be around me very quickly.
I would like
her to be...
- Exceptional - I've noticed that I've been wanting this more and more from my girls. The specific kind of talent can vary - she could be a ballerina, artist, pianist, singer or a poetess but she needs to demonstrate some sort of dedication and excellence in her preferred field. The girl I'm currently in love with is none of these things, but she's incredibly precocious and has accomplished in her teens what most people in their midtwenties are starting on. She's also an excellent horsewoman who has performed before country faires.
- Social - not necessarily a social butterfly, but it'll be nice if she could talk to people or stand up for me against other women in their own social games. I've always enjoyed the company of girls who could deal effectively with other women, or become informal leaders in their social hierachies.
- Fashionable - at least enough to wear high heels and like it. I do like my girls to wear pretty things, so sue me. Fortunately, I've only met one or two girls out of dozens who haven't met my basic limit there.
It would be nice
if she was...
- A ballerina - I have a ballerina fetish. Sue me. But it tends to confer a level of grace and feminity to the girls, not to mention a kind of social ruthlessness that I've come to appreciate. Ballerinas tend to be unbeliveably cruel to each other for the least imperfection(imagine high school popularity contests that never end), so a girl that can survive is a dagger in silk, especially to other women. Refined lethality.
They also tend to have great bodies.
- Traditionally trained - very few girls these days know how to prepare a meal for a large party, smooth over concerns, recite poetry, and flow conversations with deliberate ease. The few who do tend to grab my attention immediately.
Most of those which are, I notice, tend to have been trained to be a lady from an early age. As that training tends to include ballet, my desires coincide.
Inasofar as looks go, I tend to think that almost all of the girls that I've liked are astoundingly beautiful, but I've to believe that beauty is a very subjective trait. I like brunettes and dark hair with dark eyes, but my preferences have changed after non-brunette women tended to be more attracted to me. I also like short, tiny girls, but have come to appreciate women with curves much more. A good personality and what your friends say tends to impact one's perception of beauty immensely - I'm hardly all that attractive, but when a girl's friend told her, "He's hot!" she began to see me in an altogether new light.
Many different forms of bodies are beautiful, I've come to conclude. So as long as the woman puts in some effort to maintain her beauty, I'm liable to find her attractive. Especially if she's doing it for me, like how my girl has begun to wear perfume and do her nails on a much more common basis since knowing of my preferences.
Ultimately, the list is rather bunk. I've found that I'll easily violate it for any number of reasons, but its still fun to make them.
Regards,
IO
so dont be
