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Hawx79

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Hello I'm going to call this pretty Slovenian escort that I have seen once before, however not plannin to have sex at all, as I'm interested in her and not her body.
I'm going to try her be mine girlfriend but demand then she stops what she is doing.
I'm buying her flowers and wine.

What would she think when she is here and notice I don't want sex? Could she get annoyed and just leave?
 
if you pay her money she won't be bothered what you want !
 
Mate, you cannot impose on another's free will. If she is a call girl, then she has her reasons for being a call girl. She will justify them however she has to. She may even think you are being admirable, wanting her for her mind, and not her body. But you said "demand that she stops doing what she is doing."

Chances are high she's not going to listen to your demands, even if you think what you're doing is noble.

Listen, where I live there are alot of prostitutes in one section of the city. They see me, assume I am a tourist, (as I'm not from here, but have lived here three years) and just try to get me to have sex. I have never had sex with a prostitute, and I never will. Not that I judge what they do, its just not what I want for myself. On several occasions I have gotten all psychological with them and asked them if this is what they wanted out of their life. Some of them are hard as nails and won't discuss what they want, but a few have let me in their heads and told me that they do what they have to do, and need to support their kids, or whatever. Some wanted to go back to college, or be lucky enough to find a good job.

If you have something to offer this woman, such as security and a better life, sure, she might give up being an escort if you can guarantee her some form of security and wellness and happiness.

Just take it in small steps. Don't DEMAND anything. Start off being her friend, and ask her what she wants most out of life. Really show you care. It's not about flowers and wine, though that is admirable. But it's really about getting in her head and heart and having a soul to soul conversation with her. Let it take its time. Doing it on a second date is just too rushed in my opinion, but it's only my opinion. Do what your heart tells you mate. :)
 
Uhm. She's an escort. It's not in her business interest to date you. Please don't make the stupid mistake of thinking you can make an escort your girlfriend. She probably gets offers like this all the time, what is so different about you? Go find a girlfriend who isn't a prostitute.
 
Hello thisside... thx for your reply. I just feel I have to do this as I won't be having a second chance for a relationship. I really want to help her out of her situation so she can live a more decent life with me, it also would make me very happy if I'm able to make her happy again so she can leave her bad traumas behind her.
 
I don't know, but I heard that escorts get paid for hours, so I guess she doesn't mind what you do, as long as you pay her. If you just want a high class prostitute, the "girlfriend experience", or maybe just someone to talk about the good old times for around 10 hours... they don't care, as long as you pay and follow the rules... or better as long as you just do what you pay for.

However, if you want to date or fall in love with a person, then this girl is most likely the wrong choice. She surely has 10 guys like you, who already spent a lot of time with her and make her presents and she surely doesn't mind to milk these money cows just the way she will do with you, once she sees how easy a prey you are.
Always remember: It's her job to be the girl you like, and it's her job to be nice to you. You may call this the "hardcore class" of the service industry.

So, to make a long story short. If you want a girlfriend, than this girl is not a option. If you want to get your heart broken one day, but only after you spent tons of money on her, than go ahead. All we can tell you now, is that you are having a very bad idea right now.

I would even say, better don't use an service like that at all... but I guess I will sooner or later end there myself, once I was too lonely for a time that's way too long. :(

Hawx79 said:
Hello thisside... thx for your reply. I just feel I have to do this as I won't be having a second chance for a relationship. I really want to help her out of her situation so she can live a more decent life with me, it also would make me very happy if I'm able to make her happy again so she can leave her bad traumas behind her.

unlike most prostitutes, most escorts are doing it on their free will. Some just do it for the nice amount of money that can be earned in a short time, they don't need anyone to quit, they just wait for the right time. Some may do it to support a family, but guess what: They just need your money, not you.
I think you should inform yourself a bit about the topic, there are many "blogs" of escorts and former escorts on the net and a lot of articles about it.
 
Yes, there is much truth in these other posts, mate. Great perceptions from all around. I do remember one thing from when I was younger, a friend of mine fell in love with a stripper at a night club. Then he just drove himself crazy because she wouldn't quit her job, and he found himself going to the bar all the time and torturing himself over all the guys stuff one dollar bills in her g-string.

Is it possible you just want to help her to help yourself feel better? And don't say you won't be having a second chance at a relationship. You never know what fate or intention has in store for you. Do what you want of course, but realize it could be true that a bunch of guys have already promised this woman the moon if she would give up her life. Good luck with whatever you do. Personally I think it'll probably lead to more harm than good, but I could be wrong.
 
Ask for the girlfriend experience. I remember a Two and a Half Men episode were Charlie Sheen's character gets an escort and watches Sportscenter in bed the whole time
 
Like the unknown David Hannum said....

"There's a sucker born every minute"
 
My boss has a saying, "You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay her because she goes away after sex". What you are proposing is, in this sense, mind-boggling.
 
Update:
Today i was planning calling the agency to send her to me again and i had flowers, wine and pizza for her. I was planning to treat her like a princess with no sex involved. I woke up excited with good expectations for the day.
So i called the agency and to my horror they said she had left yesterday. I was asking many questions in a fury. It seems she was being very troublesome etc... Believable, as she had bad mouthed her agency to me at one point.
I asked if there was any other way i could contact her, they said they didnt have any, which is bullshit as they must have her personal phone number. Maybe i will call the agency again and ask them specifically for that, but i doubt they will give it?

According to the agency she left to Stuttgart. For another agency? I dunno. She did mention me about that city too when she was with me. Her English and German skills were poor so i had trouble sometimes understanding her.

What other way is there i can find her? All i know is her for name used at her agency and im not even sure thats real.

Ive never been in a relationship, this was the closest thing ever for me. I would have taken care of her with everything i have.
IF ONLY SHE KNEW THIS!
And now she is forever gone out of my life, left me to rott alone in my hole til the day i die.
 
jesus, forget about her !
Millions of women out there, find someone else !
 
Aside from the fact, that she will never be your girlfriend...

Right now, you are closer to be her stalker than any other possible relationship that two human beings can have.
Please try to forget her... you won't find happiness this way.
 
As a new member, I don't know your story, the story of your loneliness, but I'm pretty sure that looking for a girlfriend in agency is a really bad idea... For your own good you should forget about that girl. "(...) left me to rot in my hole till the day I die". What makes you form such a strong judgement?
 
Your behavior is bordering on being a creeper.
You seem fixated, as though if you can't be with this one specific woman, that you've only met ONCE, that your life is over.
That's not healthy at all.
 
I can not begin to enumerate the ways in which the original poster of this thread is setting himself up for a huge disappointment. So, I'll try to summarize into one sentence: Dude, you can't buy affection, especially from a woman who sells sex without affection.
 
EveWasFramed said:
You seem fixated, as though if you can't be with this one specific woman, that you've only met ONCE, that your life is over.

Yes because i had at least something to offer her: A normal life with a caring person for her.
Other women in my society are all well educated, have en enormous ego and are very picky in whom they choose to date, and they usually marry very late too.
You see all of these women are far out of my league.

Today I feel i have returned again to my usual life of emptiness, loneliness and despair. I will never know what its like to be romantically involved.

Her departing out of my life is my apocalypse!
 
Just because you think you have something to offer her doesn't mean she'd actually want it. And just because she's a prostitute, that doesn't mean she has no standards. You are probably not the first client to fall in love with her, nor you will be the last. Everything about escorts is a paid act to make you feel good about yourself. And she seems to have chosen her profession for a reason. If you feel so insecure about yourself that you feel like you can only find someone with such a terrible life and no standards to date you, maybe you should seek therapy instead.
 
Chikid said:
Ask for the girlfriend experience. I remember a Two and a Half Men episode were Charlie Sheen's character gets an escort and watches Sportscenter in bed the whole time

:D

He also gets her to nag him about having a dirty bathroom.
 
Barbaloot said:
Just because you think you have something to offer her doesn't mean she'd actually want it. And just because she's a prostitute, that doesn't mean she has no standards. You are probably not the first client to fall in love with her, nor you will be the last. Everything about escorts is a paid act to make you feel good about yourself. And she seems to have chosen her profession for a reason. If you feel so insecure about yourself that you feel like you can only find someone with such a terrible life and no standards to date you, maybe you should seek therapy instead.

Yes...this ^^.
 

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