Hello forums, I guess your newest member here. I've browsed through countless threads looking for the right one, but I just can't find one that's close enough to my situation. Well here it goes:
I've been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months now. I love her very much and think she's the most amazing girl I've known. She started going to university, so during the summer before that her life changed drastically. She's told me that she's been feeling down since then and doesn't really enjoy life, doesn't get excited about anything anymore, sometimes she is overly sensitive. She hasn't had a great childhood and she lived with her grandfather as a child, but he passed away when she was in her young teens. She moved to another country (we're both immigrants, from different parts of the world) to live with her mom and her stepdad ( I guess some background might help). Regardless of her moodiness and my frustration and all I'm there for her, trying to get her to enjoy life again. She says that I do help and that it is slowly getting better, but I don't think that's the case. I'd do anything for her and getting her to feel better is extremely important to me. Is there anyone there with a similar experience. I really want her to enjoy life like she used to. She also says that she's stupid and isn't good enough for me, which is bullshit because she's doing great at one of the top universities of the country. I guess that might have to do with the fact that nobody really made her feel like she meant the world to them. Thing is, she does to me.
Thank you in advance !
I've been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months now. I love her very much and think she's the most amazing girl I've known. She started going to university, so during the summer before that her life changed drastically. She's told me that she's been feeling down since then and doesn't really enjoy life, doesn't get excited about anything anymore, sometimes she is overly sensitive. She hasn't had a great childhood and she lived with her grandfather as a child, but he passed away when she was in her young teens. She moved to another country (we're both immigrants, from different parts of the world) to live with her mom and her stepdad ( I guess some background might help). Regardless of her moodiness and my frustration and all I'm there for her, trying to get her to enjoy life again. She says that I do help and that it is slowly getting better, but I don't think that's the case. I'd do anything for her and getting her to feel better is extremely important to me. Is there anyone there with a similar experience. I really want her to enjoy life like she used to. She also says that she's stupid and isn't good enough for me, which is bullshit because she's doing great at one of the top universities of the country. I guess that might have to do with the fact that nobody really made her feel like she meant the world to them. Thing is, she does to me.
Thank you in advance !