A_T_Swordsman
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I can't think of a way out of this situation, but maybe some other minds can help me.
From just a "I'm bored and lonely." That doesn't seem like too big a deal. Plenty of websites will tell you to go hang out at a bar, join a club, etc...
Well, I have other annoying restrictions which have limited me.
Last semester I had so much homework I was unable to re-join Latin and Ballroom dance club. I spent nearly all my time with homework. This semester, things have semi-quieted down. Every few days I'll be swamped with homework, then, like this weekend, I'll have a couple assignments that will probably only take me 12 or so hours, giving me most of the rest of the weekend free. But, that doesn't make it easy to join a club because my free-time is so hectic.
Also, I'm not really a fan of alcohol. I mean, I don't mind a shot with friends who really want to do it as a thing of camaraderie, but I'm not going to order a beer.
Should I really be hanging out at bars then? I mean, I'd literally be sitting there with a soda at a bar, by myself... what's the point?
Sure, I like museums, and art galleries, rather than sports... But museums and art galleries are few and far between...
I've been to the library once to check out a book, but lately none have looked interesting (though I'll keep looking for ones...) but even still, the library in my area isn't exactly a social place, since it's usually deserted.
My friend suggested I hang out with my computer at a coffee-shop, and I'll probably do that some time (I don't drink coffee, but a hot-chocolate or smoothie is cool) but that's still so restrictive.
Maybe more experienced/open minds than mine can help me out here.
Don't get me wrong, hanging out on the internet with you guys is fun and all, but you get the idea XD
From just a "I'm bored and lonely." That doesn't seem like too big a deal. Plenty of websites will tell you to go hang out at a bar, join a club, etc...
Well, I have other annoying restrictions which have limited me.
Last semester I had so much homework I was unable to re-join Latin and Ballroom dance club. I spent nearly all my time with homework. This semester, things have semi-quieted down. Every few days I'll be swamped with homework, then, like this weekend, I'll have a couple assignments that will probably only take me 12 or so hours, giving me most of the rest of the weekend free. But, that doesn't make it easy to join a club because my free-time is so hectic.
Also, I'm not really a fan of alcohol. I mean, I don't mind a shot with friends who really want to do it as a thing of camaraderie, but I'm not going to order a beer.
Should I really be hanging out at bars then? I mean, I'd literally be sitting there with a soda at a bar, by myself... what's the point?
Sure, I like museums, and art galleries, rather than sports... But museums and art galleries are few and far between...
I've been to the library once to check out a book, but lately none have looked interesting (though I'll keep looking for ones...) but even still, the library in my area isn't exactly a social place, since it's usually deserted.
My friend suggested I hang out with my computer at a coffee-shop, and I'll probably do that some time (I don't drink coffee, but a hot-chocolate or smoothie is cool) but that's still so restrictive.
Maybe more experienced/open minds than mine can help me out here.
Don't get me wrong, hanging out on the internet with you guys is fun and all, but you get the idea XD