Among the Sleep
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Alright...so I tend to be very imperceptive when it comes to girls flirting with me. There have been times where a girl has flirted with me (even pretty blatantly), I completely missed it, and one of my friends has pointed it out after the fact, and I later realize that he was probably right. I went through a long stretch in my life of having absolutely zero self esteem, and never bothered talking to girls as a result. So my game isn't too sharp, if you will. I have a real hard time differentiating between a girl just being friendly or actually showing legitimate interest.
A couple questions...I mean, for the guys, what do you look for in terms of flirty behavior that actually signals to you she's interested? Are there a few, like, obvious telltale signs that really catch your attention when a girl is doing them? And I guess for the ladies, how do you flirt? And do you do it all intentionally, or do things like maintaining eye contact just kind of happen subconsciously?
I understand everyone's different, so I don't know, maybe it's a dumb question. Some people are friendlier than others, some people are physically friendly in a way that might make you think they're interested when they're just naturally like that. But a little bit of insight into this matter would be appreciated, hopefully from both genders. I'm 23 with extremely limited experience in the girl department, and I don't wanna be wasting any more opportunities.
A couple questions...I mean, for the guys, what do you look for in terms of flirty behavior that actually signals to you she's interested? Are there a few, like, obvious telltale signs that really catch your attention when a girl is doing them? And I guess for the ladies, how do you flirt? And do you do it all intentionally, or do things like maintaining eye contact just kind of happen subconsciously?
I understand everyone's different, so I don't know, maybe it's a dumb question. Some people are friendlier than others, some people are physically friendly in a way that might make you think they're interested when they're just naturally like that. But a little bit of insight into this matter would be appreciated, hopefully from both genders. I'm 23 with extremely limited experience in the girl department, and I don't wanna be wasting any more opportunities.