SomebodyForSomeone
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So there is this girl that works at a store somewhat close to where I live. She had helped me at the checkout a couple times previous and said hi with a big smile another time. This one particular time that I went in I didn't realize she was nearby when I was looking at a particular product. She asked if I needed any help to which I responded that I was basically just looking. She walked away a bit while doing something but asked if I knew what kind I wanted (of the product). We basically talked about the product for what seemed like a good 5 minutes but she was smiling the whole time and she was super nice and cool and very cute. It seems like she likes me but she could just be that nice to everyone.. I don't know.
So I've pretty much fallen for this girl and can't stop thinking about her. Trouble is I have a huge case of social anxiety especially when it comes to girls. I have almost basically zero experience. I had my chances with girls when I was younger but was too scared/shy. I'm in my twenties and apparently good looking (to what degree I don't know) but have body image/confidence issues. Oh yeah, I'm one of those nice guys that apparently run the risk of being friendzoned because they're too afraid to let it be known they want anything more.
I so badly want to talk to her more, though. Normally there is like 0% chance that I could go in and strike up a conversation or let it be known that I'm interested in her. I could go to the store more and just try to talk but it isn't a grocery store and it's not that big so it would be pretty weird if I keep showing up lol.. But also I don't know what I would talk about since I don't do a lot with people because of my social anxiety. Chances are a cute girl like her is in a relationship already..
Any suggestions?
So I've pretty much fallen for this girl and can't stop thinking about her. Trouble is I have a huge case of social anxiety especially when it comes to girls. I have almost basically zero experience. I had my chances with girls when I was younger but was too scared/shy. I'm in my twenties and apparently good looking (to what degree I don't know) but have body image/confidence issues. Oh yeah, I'm one of those nice guys that apparently run the risk of being friendzoned because they're too afraid to let it be known they want anything more.
I so badly want to talk to her more, though. Normally there is like 0% chance that I could go in and strike up a conversation or let it be known that I'm interested in her. I could go to the store more and just try to talk but it isn't a grocery store and it's not that big so it would be pretty weird if I keep showing up lol.. But also I don't know what I would talk about since I don't do a lot with people because of my social anxiety. Chances are a cute girl like her is in a relationship already..
Any suggestions?