This woman at work, I find her attitude towards me really odd.
I start at 6am to do the papers and she arrives at 6.45 before the shop opens. She knocks on the door because we aren't open. I walk towards the door and let her in. Sounds simple !
Anyway, Ive noticed that when I'm walking to the door (it takes me about 5 seconds), she always turns away and looks either to the right or left, pretending there is something worth looking at. I guess she doesn't like eye contact or doesn't like me looking at her. Or maybe she doesn't want me to smile at her. Sometimes someone else lets her in and Ive noticed she doesn't turn away with them. This includes men as well. She only does it with me. Today, I was a bit longer letting her in because I was doing the magazines. I think she thought the deputy manager was going to let her in. When I turned the corner and she saw it was me, she turned her head 180 degrees (sounds like the exorcist lol but you know what I mean lol ) and looked completely away. Reminded me of a frightened rabbit ! I opened the door and said 'morning' - she didn't reply.
So she's frigging odd, I know I'm not great to look at but .. I find it pathetic. Maybe I should put a bag on my head ?
ps she's quite chatty otherwise, talks about football alot. I asked her out 15 years ago, she said 'no' - surely she doesn't hold a grdge over this ?
Thoughts ?
Thanks !
I start at 6am to do the papers and she arrives at 6.45 before the shop opens. She knocks on the door because we aren't open. I walk towards the door and let her in. Sounds simple !
Anyway, Ive noticed that when I'm walking to the door (it takes me about 5 seconds), she always turns away and looks either to the right or left, pretending there is something worth looking at. I guess she doesn't like eye contact or doesn't like me looking at her. Or maybe she doesn't want me to smile at her. Sometimes someone else lets her in and Ive noticed she doesn't turn away with them. This includes men as well. She only does it with me. Today, I was a bit longer letting her in because I was doing the magazines. I think she thought the deputy manager was going to let her in. When I turned the corner and she saw it was me, she turned her head 180 degrees (sounds like the exorcist lol but you know what I mean lol ) and looked completely away. Reminded me of a frightened rabbit ! I opened the door and said 'morning' - she didn't reply.
So she's frigging odd, I know I'm not great to look at but .. I find it pathetic. Maybe I should put a bag on my head ?
ps she's quite chatty otherwise, talks about football alot. I asked her out 15 years ago, she said 'no' - surely she doesn't hold a grdge over this ?
Thoughts ?
Thanks !