With that attitude why bother trying, right? Wrong. Seriously, if you think about it dating or making friends is attitude, and I don't mean *snap* *snap* kind of attitude but self attitude. How you present yourself to the world. If you go around thinking bad about yourself or with a negative attitude, that pushes people away. Sure a lot of people might initially judge others on their looks so you have to show off your inner beauty, what makes you attractive, if your intelligent, funny, charming, etc. Everyone has something about them that makes them attractive. Honestly I pity those who only have their looks, if that's all you have then what good is that. Sure you might have an easier time picking up mates but nothing will last unless all you want to be is a trophy. I think people who aren't on the Adonis scale of looks have much more to offer.