Naleena
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Should they have a right to do so if it isn't their child? Why?
LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
Hi Eve. I really have no answer for that.EveWasFramed said:LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
Here is the fault with that - what if the biological parent washes his or her hands of the child(ren) and leaves that burden to the step parent?
Maybe I best excuse myself from this thread.
LoneKiller said:Hi Eve. I really have no answer for that.EveWasFramed said:LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
Here is the fault with that - what if the biological parent washes his or her hands of the child(ren) and leaves that burden to the step parent?
Maybe I best excuse myself from this thread.
Now that I think about it, I should have refrained from replying in this thread myself. I'm not a parent, so I have no experience. I apologize if I came off as disrespectful.
No apology necessary Eve. I have no experience with these kinds of situations. Trying to tell others who may or may not have be in this situation themselves is like me trying to tell Michael Jordan how to score from the arc. I sure that he would have a few things to say in return.EveWasFramed said:LoneKiller said:Hi Eve. I really have no answer for that.EveWasFramed said:LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
Here is the fault with that - what if the biological parent washes his or her hands of the child(ren) and leaves that burden to the step parent?
Maybe I best excuse myself from this thread.
Now that I think about it, I should have refrained from replying in this thread myself. I'm not a parent, so I have no experience. I apologize if I came off as disrespectful.
I didnt see you as being disrespectful, LK. It's just a touchy subject for me. Sorry if I seemed aggressive.
Bones said:....the interpersonal dynamics was not appropriate for my daughter's well being since I am the one responsible for bringing up my daughter in a healthy environment.
LoneKiller said:No Goddamn way! It's my belief that if the person is not the biological parent, they have absolutely no right to discipline the child.
WildernessWildChild said:Bones said:....the interpersonal dynamics was not appropriate for my daughter's well being since I am the one responsible for bringing up my daughter in a healthy environment.
This has been one of the things that's crossed my mind regarding Kid and why I haven't been bothered with pursuing another relationship.
Bones said:@ EWF *hugs* for your experience and I wish things would have been better for you because you are a great person; and by default, a giving person through acts of service.
Bones said:For me, the premise has always been to set expectations/boundaries that is a benefit for the entire (non)legal family unit and everyone work as a team.
Bones said:When I had my step-daughter, I treated her the same as I did my daughter and 'bloodlines' never played a role - am a more black & white person for either being all in or out.
And, I was extremely brokenhearted over my step-daughter; but admittedly, bloodlines played a role because of the legal system.
Bones said:I guess I do not have the capacity to understand why people are not "all in" when it comes to the family unit - it truly boggles my mind.
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