Escort to Daughter

Last October I met a am escort 22 years old she is lovely and we quickly became close , I was at a time in my life that I was quite lonely and she was also, we met several times and I got to know her very well hour appointment lasted whole days and before long we were spend lots of time together as friends ,
I then realised that I had feeling that were not sexual but more parental and explained that I could not longer sleep With her as it felt wrong. At this point I was aware of her entire life , anyway we now have a father daughter relationship
And she no longer escorts with my assistance she has a full time job and is dating a lad her own age who I have met him several times and he is a lovely lad
she has changed her name to mine and has met my whole family , she is in my heart my daughter it is bit odd but it is right for us and I will always have her in my life
I'm telling this forum as I can't share it with people in my life as nobody knows accept us but sometime happiness comes from strange places !!

That's the kind of situation I'd expect to read in a strong fiction book. It defies the notion of morality in every way.

It's funny what unexpected turns life can take. Nobody is immune to falling and nobody is immune to redemption.

Well it not fiction it true , she is a lovely girl that was truly lost, and I well in was stupid fool but in the end we have found a happiness that works . The past is in a deep dark pit that we don't discuss and I really do think of her as my own , I could never think of her that way again I love her in a different way , for the record I could never see an escort again as this has shown me that there is so much behind the reasons girls do this work

Seems like a nice story, have you watched the movie "Lost in Translation"? A great film and is sort of similar to what happened to you. If it feels right for you folks then it's allright, who cares if it is wierd or unusual? I sometimes feel like adpoting a grandpa when I see a old person that I like :O

Well it's understandable really, it's like friends who sleep together (Aka "friends with benefits" or "fresia buddies") someone always ends up developing feelings for the other person, only in your case it developed more into a father-daughter situation. I suppose it could be thought of as unusual, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen, right?

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PS; it's nice that you feel you can share something like that here.

Mazza said:

Well it not fiction it true , she is a lovely girl that was truly lost, and I well in was stupid fool but in the end we have found a happiness that works . The past is in a deep dark pit that we don't discuss and I really do think of her as my own , I could never think of her that way again I love her in a different way , for the record I could never see an escort again as this has shown me that there is so much behind the reasons girls do this work

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Nevertheless it would make for a good story.

I'm sure you've make a great influence on her.. to have a better life. I'd have a drink with you, on me.

What does your wife think of your new "daughter?"

Well she was very wary at first and she doesn't know how we met , but we have had several meals and few days out as a family and everyone is getting on , few people think its a little odd it is but I don't have any sexual feelings toward her now I have accepted her heart and soul as my daughter
And I think that is onviuos to anyone that sees us together, Most people automatically think she my daughter . I talk about her all the time just like my other kids and I am So proud of what she is doing and achieving in her life .

Interesting the way certain things in life turn out to be, eh. Well if it's working out fine and dandy, then I wish you good luck.

Well this didn't turn out like your usual escort thread. That's a very interesting story, I'm glad it worked out for both of you.

Interesting, Gulliver.

Interesting.

So... I'm the only one who thinks this is kinda creepy?

What? I'm just saying what you're all thinking.

Limlim said:

So... I'm the only one who thinks this is kinda creepy?

What? I'm just saying what you're all thinking.

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I kinda thought it was too creepy to respond to....

....darn, just did.

I can see how it could be creepy but I am immune to that feeling I guess...

WildernessWildChild said:

Limlim said:

So... I'm the only one who thinks this is kinda creepy?

What? I'm just saying what you're all thinking.

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I kinda thought it was too creepy to respond to....

....darn, just did.

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I think I've seen weird / creepy enough to know that anything is possible....

http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=25924

Maybe knowing how the story started would provide some clarity...

I can't help but wonder if the o.p. would be so enthusiastic about this situation if it was his wife and some young guy becoming so close. For some reason I suspect it wouldn't be very well received.

I question his integrity as he indicates no one knows how his "relationship with his new daughter" originally started. He's got this girl- who he once paid for sex, coming to his home, meeting his wife, children, peers....is it just me or is this kind of sleazy? If they (particularly his wife) knew how their relationship started would they be remotely supportive? According to him he's been instrumental in "saving" this girl (and I'm happy for her she's left that life behind) but the deception he minimizes is pretty extreme- I guess if he can live with himself all the more power to him.

I'm not proud of the way we met I is something I regret and would never do again , Do you think it would have been okay if I had destroyed my family ? The guilt and shame of that mine to live with every day , my "daughter " is just that to me I could no more have walked away from her than my genetic children , I did help her to her to sought out her life by getting her a flat and financial support ( not for sex ) for the record she turned her life around got a full Time job and has met a lovely new partner she did all Of that not me all she needed was some help
would you have me destroy all that ? She had and has the option to not be in my life but chose wanted be part of my family I love her as a daughter and nothing more

I did state that I'm happy she's turned her life around- I begrudgingly give you some credit for that...

...but,

I'm still curious- if the roles were reversed, if it was your wife who did this...would you still consider it an act of...."charity" (for lack of a better word) or would you be deeply wounded and disgusted by the entire situation?