What comes to mind when you think of your ex's?

What comes to mind when you think of your ex's?

Love-hate stuff, a vertigo of emotions, some regrets.

a psychiatric ward, most of them

Her smile.

The first- she never had the opportunity to find her way...a life cut too short.

The second- Crazy *****! The only person I've ever truly been afraid of (as an adult that is). I still won't go back to my home town as she's still there.

Kids Mom- quite possibly the kindest person I've ever known. It's sad that we grew apart and passion disappeared. We make great friends- with a kid (sounds strange to me too).

I hope they haven't found the bodies.

Ex husbands or ex boyfriends? I'll choose husbands....

The first - never give a serial cheater a 2nd or 3rd chance just because you don't want a "failed" marriage. RUN - run far and run fast.

The second - never stay married to someone who tries to isolate you from your family - there's a reason for that. Also see above "RUN" comment.

The third - out of MANY things I can say, I'll choose the GOOD one - I have my daughter.

I still think the sun shines our her arsehole to be honest.

She clearly realised that I was worthless just like everyone else implied.

^ Ever considered the idea that actually everyone else, including her, was wrong?

Peaches said:

a psychiatric ward, most of them

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Same here.

A valuable lesson in trust; that is, don't give it so easily.

The things that could of been, and weren't.

WildernessWildChild said:

Kids Mom- quite possibly the kindest person I've ever known. It's sad that we grew apart and passion disappeared. We make great friends- with a kid (sounds strange to me too).

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Out of all the responses, this made me so sad. I'm sorry that happened to the both of you. We can only learn from such things. Relationships must be nurtured. I'm glad you are friends. Your kid needs that.

Depends on the ex. Most of them good times which in the long wrong didn't work out. Two of them are different. One laced with tragedy preventing it form working out and one which was a bloody stupid plan in the 1st place.

Huld said:

The things that could of been, and weren't.

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I know how it feels to think about life with someone and make plans only to lose them and the dreams that go with them. Were you able to heal from it? Does it still make you sad?

It's terribly cliche, but if it COULD have worked it WOULD have worked. If you linger on the things that weren't you really devalue the things that were.

Nice But Dim Jim said:

I still think the sun shines our her arsehole to be honest.

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Awwww. Hugs. Xoxo

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perfanoff said:

Love-hate stuff, a vertigo of emotions, some regrets.

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I like the way you phrased that. Vertigo of emotions. You make me want to write a poem. Can I use it?

suicide

I didn't have any