Alonewith2cats
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I got into a huge petty argument with my friend on the way home from the mall. She was giving me advice on how to be more attractive to the opposite sex. She told me I should color my hair more blonde and wear heels. I told her that too many chemicals damage my hair and high heels cause my feet tremendous pain. She then got offended that I wouldn't take her advice and pointed out that because I wouldn't take her advice I shouldn't complain about being alone because guys don't like sandals and flats or shoes with laces. I argued back about how I need to be myself, and any guy who is going to be with me is going to accept me just the way I am, and I don't believe the decision of whether or not to wear high heels determines whether or not I'm going to get a boyfriend anytime soon. I know guys are visual creatures but I don't believe I have to torture myself for this purpose. She was adamant that it's going to take me longer to get a boyfriend because guys won't notice me as much if I don't make these changes to my appearance. But she's a woman who hasn't had any real luck with men lately either, yes, she dresses sexier than me and the guys, well, they just want to have sex with her. This argument got so heated we almost got into a car accident, over heels!!! She was driving, complained that I yelled at her and that's why she almost crashed. Well, she put me in a position to defend myself and that's why I raised my voice. I know they look hot, but really, do guys really care that much about high heels? I don't believe so and if I'm wrong I still won't wear them often.