Whimsical eccentric
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I don't really know hw to start because my mind is in such a complete mess. Well here goes, anyway. I have been lonely for about 2 years now before I started joining this site. People say that the teenage years is the best time in one's life but I feel the total opposite, they were the worst of times for me.
Somehow, I can't fit in with anyone, you know. I have always been a tomboy and I am very rough in my mannerisms., although I am very direct and honest. People have also said I look handsome rather than pretty, (wry smile). WhenI was younger, my best friends were both boys, and I shared them with my twin brother. I can't seem to talk to girls because I don't quite understand them and their interests. Alas, growing up, both of my best friends grew distant from me and made friends with the other boys, which I understand, which boy can be best friends with a girl during teenage times? So I am left with no friends at all.
The funny thing is that I just can't seem to talk to girls. How pathetic isn't it? When I am a girl too. I always feel inferior when I want to approach them to be friends with them. I would think they are secretly ridiculing me for my mannerisms and boyishness. The real problem is that I am somewhere in the middle, you know too boyish for a girl's liking and too sensitive for a boy's liking. In truth, I consider myself very empathetic and I take great pleasure in sharing feelings with someone over life.
Because I feel so akward around everyone, I became rougher in my mannerisms. I wil swing from being stuck up at times and incredibly silly and uncouth. Nobody knows the real me, not even my family. I felt that I had completely messed up my life in secondary school. I also have another problem, I don't share the same interests with anyone in my school. I like talking about life and its subtler shades and I read books that dwell on life like books from Mitch Albom. Being raised up mostly by my grandparents, I listen to songs from the 70s and 80s. I feel horribly isolated and alienated from knowing no one I can relate with.i view myself as weird and overly sentimental and philosophical, whereas others around me just joke and gossip all the time, they can't keep up or understand my thoughts.
I am so depressed and I feel horribly empty inside. I have grown to be angry and sullen and my self esteem is plunging down. It's begun to affect other parts of my life, especially my academics which I have always done well in, and for that I worry. I can't concentrate on anything and I just brood all day. I can't give and care about others anymore because I am so empty and deadened inside. What has become of me? Is there anybody here who can relate with anything I am going through? Or is there anybody like me? If there is, please can I be friends with you? For it's horrible thinking I am the only one. Above all, can someone help me by giving tips on how to make friends with other girls? Please... I feel so desperate.
Somehow, I can't fit in with anyone, you know. I have always been a tomboy and I am very rough in my mannerisms., although I am very direct and honest. People have also said I look handsome rather than pretty, (wry smile). WhenI was younger, my best friends were both boys, and I shared them with my twin brother. I can't seem to talk to girls because I don't quite understand them and their interests. Alas, growing up, both of my best friends grew distant from me and made friends with the other boys, which I understand, which boy can be best friends with a girl during teenage times? So I am left with no friends at all.
The funny thing is that I just can't seem to talk to girls. How pathetic isn't it? When I am a girl too. I always feel inferior when I want to approach them to be friends with them. I would think they are secretly ridiculing me for my mannerisms and boyishness. The real problem is that I am somewhere in the middle, you know too boyish for a girl's liking and too sensitive for a boy's liking. In truth, I consider myself very empathetic and I take great pleasure in sharing feelings with someone over life.
Because I feel so akward around everyone, I became rougher in my mannerisms. I wil swing from being stuck up at times and incredibly silly and uncouth. Nobody knows the real me, not even my family. I felt that I had completely messed up my life in secondary school. I also have another problem, I don't share the same interests with anyone in my school. I like talking about life and its subtler shades and I read books that dwell on life like books from Mitch Albom. Being raised up mostly by my grandparents, I listen to songs from the 70s and 80s. I feel horribly isolated and alienated from knowing no one I can relate with.i view myself as weird and overly sentimental and philosophical, whereas others around me just joke and gossip all the time, they can't keep up or understand my thoughts.
I am so depressed and I feel horribly empty inside. I have grown to be angry and sullen and my self esteem is plunging down. It's begun to affect other parts of my life, especially my academics which I have always done well in, and for that I worry. I can't concentrate on anything and I just brood all day. I can't give and care about others anymore because I am so empty and deadened inside. What has become of me? Is there anybody here who can relate with anything I am going through? Or is there anybody like me? If there is, please can I be friends with you? For it's horrible thinking I am the only one. Above all, can someone help me by giving tips on how to make friends with other girls? Please... I feel so desperate.