LonelyStar78
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My story is one of those unbelievable ones. My sister and I were sexually abused by my father when we were younger. When my mother found out about it she didn't do anything. When I was in college the repressed memories of what happened to me started flooding back and I got on cocaine. Every time I snorted a line it would numb the pain, but of course I would have a bad come down. I somehow managed to graduate college and went to Africa to teach. I changed my life around and wanted to become a better person. I have traveled around the world volunteering as a way of my own drug rehabilitation.
I met the woman of my dreams and she and I have been together for the past 11 years. The depression I continue to suffer from my family and the head games that they play continue to hurt me and our relationship. Our sex life is broken, our communication is low, but we both love each other. I don't know what to do about the broken person inside of me. I have attempted to seek counseling on 3 or 4 separate occasions in my life and each counselor has let me down by either not caring, or passing me off as just a number. I am to the point where I feel that I want to die. I feel that my partner wouldn't suffer depression if it wasn't for me and my messed up family. The sadder part of all of this is my dad was a Pastor. Being a Pastor's daughter leaves you feeling lonely, unable to talk to anyone because keeping a "good image" is always important. Now, I will turn 35 this December and I feel so broken still. I wake up everyday with pain in my heart. Everyday I think about suicide. It isn't so much that I want to die, I just want the pain to stop. It hurts me so bad. I dare not go back to drugs because I have come so far. I even managed to get a Masters degree. None of my accomplishments seem to matter with all of the sadness I am stuck in. I do have some good days, but most days I am treading water, trying to keep my head above. I am so lonely and I feel like damaged goods. I want to have a baby before my "window" closes. I have on purpose not had a child thus far because I didn't want to damage my child. Being a mom is important to me. I just feel like everything is passing me by and no one understands me. I don't know what to do or what I expect to hear from any of you, but this is another attempt to reach out to the world, to try to find reasons to stay here.
I met the woman of my dreams and she and I have been together for the past 11 years. The depression I continue to suffer from my family and the head games that they play continue to hurt me and our relationship. Our sex life is broken, our communication is low, but we both love each other. I don't know what to do about the broken person inside of me. I have attempted to seek counseling on 3 or 4 separate occasions in my life and each counselor has let me down by either not caring, or passing me off as just a number. I am to the point where I feel that I want to die. I feel that my partner wouldn't suffer depression if it wasn't for me and my messed up family. The sadder part of all of this is my dad was a Pastor. Being a Pastor's daughter leaves you feeling lonely, unable to talk to anyone because keeping a "good image" is always important. Now, I will turn 35 this December and I feel so broken still. I wake up everyday with pain in my heart. Everyday I think about suicide. It isn't so much that I want to die, I just want the pain to stop. It hurts me so bad. I dare not go back to drugs because I have come so far. I even managed to get a Masters degree. None of my accomplishments seem to matter with all of the sadness I am stuck in. I do have some good days, but most days I am treading water, trying to keep my head above. I am so lonely and I feel like damaged goods. I want to have a baby before my "window" closes. I have on purpose not had a child thus far because I didn't want to damage my child. Being a mom is important to me. I just feel like everything is passing me by and no one understands me. I don't know what to do or what I expect to hear from any of you, but this is another attempt to reach out to the world, to try to find reasons to stay here.