Hi there, i'm 30 and i'm still single. All my life i just once been in a relationship. I have dated many guys but none of them comforts me. It's so hard to feel click with somebody. When i feel click, the guy already have girlfriend, or married. Most of my friends have already married, even had children. I just feel there's something wrong with me and i guess my family feel that way too. They are telling me to be more open, and not so quiet. They told me to join some activities, which i don't prefer. It's just so hard to get out of my comfort zone, which is stay home and play games or watch movies. There are so many people in my office and i begin to feel discomfort with them. I just want to be alone most times at lunch time. Please help.