aspalas
Well-known member
Hi.
I used to love going out to bars, clubs, whatever. For the past 1,5 year I've started to dislike it more and more and more and more. I really don't like going out anymore. I think this is pretty strange, because going out was, for me, a way of meeting new people, I've met almost all of my current good friends while going out, but I don't like it anymore at all. Some of my friends feel the same way, because our "scene", the techno scene (I almost exclusively go to techno parties nowadays) is totally ruined, but most of them like going out as much as always, and now I'm slowly turning into that person who doesn't want to go out and if he does, goes home early.
I just don't feel like there's anything to it anymore. Nothing really happens while going out, and thinking about this makes me realize it's actually pretty weird; my average club night consists out of having dinner and some drinks with friends (I like this part), going to the club, getting drinks, talk a little, dance, smoke, getting drinks talk a little, dance, smoke, etc. etc. That's it. Sometimes I meet interesting people, and until about a year ago I enjoyed meeting girls, but I don't really like that anymore either; I'd like to have a serious relationship which I've never really had instead of fooling around with women who don't really mean anything to me.
Does anyone feel the same way? I'd like to get some different opinions on this.
I used to love going out to bars, clubs, whatever. For the past 1,5 year I've started to dislike it more and more and more and more. I really don't like going out anymore. I think this is pretty strange, because going out was, for me, a way of meeting new people, I've met almost all of my current good friends while going out, but I don't like it anymore at all. Some of my friends feel the same way, because our "scene", the techno scene (I almost exclusively go to techno parties nowadays) is totally ruined, but most of them like going out as much as always, and now I'm slowly turning into that person who doesn't want to go out and if he does, goes home early.
I just don't feel like there's anything to it anymore. Nothing really happens while going out, and thinking about this makes me realize it's actually pretty weird; my average club night consists out of having dinner and some drinks with friends (I like this part), going to the club, getting drinks, talk a little, dance, smoke, getting drinks talk a little, dance, smoke, etc. etc. That's it. Sometimes I meet interesting people, and until about a year ago I enjoyed meeting girls, but I don't really like that anymore either; I'd like to have a serious relationship which I've never really had instead of fooling around with women who don't really mean anything to me.
Does anyone feel the same way? I'd like to get some different opinions on this.