For a while now I've thought I have a personality disorder. Is it a personality disorder, if your personality goes against you, stops you from being sociable, seemingly stops you from getting work and generally makes your life miserable? Stops you from doing the things that most people like doing, like going pubs or clubs, and stops you from getting a woman as well. I've seen a couple of therapists, who seem to come to the conclusion there's nothing (personality wise) wrong with me. They just say I'm anxious and depressed. I just don't seem to want to make friends with people though, find I don't really have anything in common with a vast majority of people. Like we're not on the same wavelength. I just chat with them, try and be sociable, but just don't click. I think sometimes I give off the wrong impression. I stay in a lot, I only have one friend (who I play snooker with once a week) and don't want to go out partying. I don't know what's wrong with me. This existance is a drag it really is. I go to college 3 days a week, and apart from my classmates (8 people) there's only about 5 other people around college I talk to, and then it's only brief and there doesn't seem to be any connection. Everybody else gets on so well with everybody else. Outside college I seem to just go home, watch tele, make music on mu computer and play guitar, ride busses, go grocery shopping and sadly (feel a bit sad sometimes) sit on my own in McDonalds or KFC drinking coffee alone, sad. I'm 38 and the majority of people mu ahge have gf's, wives and children. I just feel like I'm cursed. I try to build rapport with people but it just never happens. What is wrong with me? Been like this 5yrs now and don't see an end in sight. I have just started going the gym again (twice a week) but don't really talk to anyone there. Just go, workout, go home and then go out again to have my lonely coffee on my own. I just go have these coffees just to get out me flat, kills a couple of hours, walking to the bus station etc. People have noted I'm quite an overthinker if that means anything.